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32 Flagstaff, AZ Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30-46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 13
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Average build
Special Diet
Might want kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I'm a transplant to Flagstaff from New England. I love singing, building community, and farms. I've been an activist, a paralegal, a sex educator, a business owner, a bartender, a cook, an EMT, a farmworker, and taken lots of classes at lots of schools.
I don't know what everyone means by "laid-back," but I'm pretty sure I'm "high strung."
What I’m doing with my life
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Working in healthcare, visiting friends, making soup.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making dinner, being calm under pressure, networking people who will like each other, rolling with the punches. I can also have fun almost anywhere, given the right crew.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Realistically? I have blue eyes and a firm handshake.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Fiction by Neil Gaiman, Francesca Lia Block, Alice Walker, Tom Robbins, Kurt Vonnegut, and Herman Hesse. Nonfictionally: Kate Bornstein, bell hooks, Heather Corinna, Tristan Taormino, Jackson Katz, Tim Wise and Deborah Tolman. And everyone loves a David Sedaris essay, right?

Movies: Frida, Vicky Cristina Barcelona, Junebug, Volver, City of Lost Children, Inception, Brick, Benny and Joon, Boondock Saints, Kill Bill, Mystic River, The Departed, The Piano, Once. Die Hard is the best Christmas movie.

TV: Just another Joss Whedon fangirl who also likes Battlestar and Doctor Who. I am an internet stereotype.

Music: Sufjan Stevens, Brown Bird, Jeffrey Foucault, World/Inferno Friendship Society, The Dresden Dolls, The Decembrists, Gogol Bordello, Talib Kweli, Janelle Monae, The Devil Makes Three, Mirah, Kate Nash, M.I.A., Lupe Fiasco, Union Station, Pete Bernhard, The Mountain Goats, and any music being made in my presence on a porch.

Food: Simple, home-cooked, and full of vegetables. Then there's the chocolate, cheese, and wine pyramid. I also have days where I eat only burritos. Because I'm BUSY and they are DELICIOUS.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Brilliant friends, strong coffee, a cast-iron skillet, dancy tunes, new ideas, and occasional quiet.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Obstacles to harmonious diversity in the world. What kind of snacks to make next. Ways to fix healthcare. Peoples' responses to crisis. Whether sweaters are ugly-cute or just ugly, and why. My wacky family. What I would do differently if I was Buffy the Vampire Slayer. What financial freedom looks like. Where I want to live/travel next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At work or out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I like to think of myself as a pretty open person; I will disclose most things about myself most of the time, if asked politely.
That said, I am unwilling to have explicit sexual conversations until I've hung out with someone in person and had a pleasant time doing so.
You should message me if
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You're a smart extrovert.
You make a solid effort not to be racist, sexist, or homophobic.
You've lived in a few places, had a few jobs, and can manage your life with a decent attitude at least most of the time.