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martdb67

42 / M / gay / Single

London, United Kingdom

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Cancer but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs
Languages
English

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I am humourous, sociable, and reliable.

My Self-Summary

I am a friendly, generally happy laid back person who enjoys the company of friends. I am currently single and have been for around 5 years. I love music and going to concerts, as well as the cinema. I also enjoy pubs and restaurants, or just staying up late and talking to friends. I believe in close friendships and would love to have a long term partner one day. I get on best with younger people.

What I’m doing with my life

I am living in West London in my own place and working in the City end of London.

I’m really good at

I'm really good at solving logical problems. I don't get too fazed or panicky about things, and am a good thinker. So friends tend to come to me a lot for problem solving - both of the mundane variety and the personal variety!

The first things people usually notice about me

I smile a lot. One friend bought me a Zippy toy (from Rainbow) cos he reckoned there were similarities. Don't know whether to take that as a compliment or an insult! :) I can take life seriously when I need to, but I'm usually a positive person on the outside.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Horror, science fiction, Stephen King, Stephen Fry, Terry Pratchett

Movies: Again science fiction, horror, drama - nothing too cheesy or cliched.

Music: Absolutely extreme love of music. Mainly of an indie or rock theme and my tastes are probably of a younger nature than I am. But probably most sorts of music except rap, most hip-hop and death metal I can at least appreciate and talk about.

Food: Indian, chinese, italian. Would probably struggle to be an outright vegetarian if I was asked to be!

The six things I could never do without

1) Laptop

2) iPod

3) Mobile phone (this is turning into a bit of a tech-gadget list isn't it?)

4) Lasagne

5) Listening to Stephen Fry

6) Watching repeats of Frasier

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Music! If I'm not listening to it, I'm thinking about what I'm going to be listening to, or what CD I want to buy. But mostly I'm listening. :)

On a typical Friday night I am

At the moment Friday's tend to be a bit of a flake-out night. I often go out on a Saturday for a full day out with friends, so Friday night becomes the time to recover from work, put feet on the sofa, pour a large drink and then find out if something like Have I Got News For You or Frasier is on TV.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I've been celibate for around 3/4 years now. Not wholly intentionally - just the way life has gone. I sort of miss sex on an emotional level - that "being with someone" - but I'm not so bothered as I'd rather bide my time and find someone nice, than go off with someone just to notch another one on the bedpost. That said, I'm not a prude, and I am open-minded. It's a difficult thing to explain in a small box on a screen.

You should message me if

If you want someone who will do his best to be a good friend, and if you want someone who will care for you (whether in friendship or a relationship) then hopefully I'm a good choice. Even if you are shy just drop a short note and say hello! Note that I'm not just looking for a partner - good friends are a must as well.