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54 Pacifica, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–60
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Jan 14
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Italian (Fluently), German (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I am a scientist, dancer (especially Argentine Tango), singer (Jazz and Tango), counselor (in training), father and lover. I was married twice and I am currently interested in exploring relationship options that include some degree of non-exclusivity to be agreed upon. The essence of what I seek is complete honesty and clarity with all concerned, and a willingness to explore what is possible.
What I’m doing with my life
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I continue to learn and explore in all areas of my life: Intellectual, artistic, emotional and sexual.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Adapting, learning. listening and communicatting
The first things people usually notice about me
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My slight Italian accent and my pony tail.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books about mind, psychology, society. Thoughtful movies. Tango music and Jazz. Any food (low on fats and red meats).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My laptop
My guitar and cello
Walks on the beach
Italian food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to fit n my life all the things that interest me
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I consider my age to be my own business and I don't hesitate to lie about it if I am forced to make it public. But that's the only thing I will lie about. I expect to be judged for who I am, what I do, how I do it, and how I show up for people.
You should message me if
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- are interested in an open relationship or are curious about what it might really mean
- know what "compersion" is and are willing to work on achieving the ability to feel it
- have a concept of reality that is grounded in science
- love music and dance
- believe that life is a work in progress and an individual work of art
- are ready to help create a condition of mutual support where we can both be who we really are...

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