Let me first start out by saying that I'm looking to be an enhancement to someone's life and hope they can be one to mine. I'm not looking to "change" anyone. I think about it in terms of a Reese's - in the way that chocolate and peanut butter go together. I should also mention your friends and family will love me!
Filling out profiles seems to be daunting and risky business in fear of saying too much of the wrong things and not enough of the right, but here is an honest attempt at sharing some insight into my personality.
My sexuality is one of the last things that defines me. I'm still a Boy Scout at heart and actually am an Eagle Scout. Look it up if you're not familiar with why that is important to me. I believe in serving. The Golden Rule goes a long way with me - and it is good karma. I believe there is enough negative stuff in the world and choose to only focus on positive people, places and experiences.
I'm not as serious as this might sound, but I do have standards. I just don't understand where the other good guys my age are hiding. I know more of us are out there!
As far as physical attributes go... I'm a realist - we're all men and men are visual by nature. That being said, I put in enough effort to keep myself fit and will only be interested in similar HWP guys. I hate that it is necessary to narrow things down to that level, but hopefully it will save some time on finding a match.
I love to travel, cook, restore old cars, backpack, watch movies and look forward to complementing someone on new adventures and a great life.
Oh, about my kids... they are at an age where they are doing their own thing most of the time. They are my world and they great. Being a dad is my greatest life blessing. I hope someone out there can appreciate that as much as I do.