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34 • F • Brooklyn, NY
I’m looking for
- Guys who like girls
- Ages 33–40
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last Online
- Sep 20
- 5′ 9″ (1.75m)
- Body Type
- Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Might want kids
- Likes dogs and likes cats
...I've learned I prefer quiet gatherings more often than large parties. I get great joy from sharing seriously goofy moments with people. In those moments, people are open and not self-conscious or concerned about how they look. And that is very refreshing in this city of fashion and art and wealth and one-upping. I've lived in Brooklyn for 11 years, and yes, there are the usual things about this city that can drive me crazy. The things I love about this city are: neighborhood coffee shops with great aesthetic and energy where exchanges with strangers can happen seamlessly; the kind and smiley man who runs the 24 hr. vegetable store/bodega who quit smoking after 30 years and is encouraging me to do the same; nodding hello on the street to the owners of businesses I support; the diversity of languages I hear daily; the bus driver that welcomes my hello when I step on and my thank you when I step off; buskers on the subway platforms who are incredible, dancers on the subway cars who are talented; walking and walking and walking; history and architecture on every corner; excellent friends.
My job: I manage a hotel. I experience a lot of different personalities, I try to learn something about being a person from each of them. Sometimes I want to tell the really unpleasant ones my analysis of why they are such an unpleasant person-- which teaches me I want to get better at letting things roll down my back.
I'm practicing presence, I'm thinking up creative projects to execute, I'm dreaming up quick trips out of New York that make a zipcar membership worthwhile, I enjoy my bicycle rides. I like sleeping in.
movies: a mix of cheese and class-- delicatessen, the thin man, the long goodbye, dead men don't wear plaid, nightmare before christmas, bill murray in anything, ferris bueller's day off, flashdance, cary grant in everything
tv: "sherlock" series- it's back, only three episodes, but it's back after 2 years on hiatus. woo-hoo!
music: recently enjoying lightnin' hopkins, john lee hooker, son house, broken social scene, black keys, satie, nina simone, hall & oats, roxy music, new order, a little dash of beyonce and jay z, rodriguez, journey, pavement, heart...
food: indian, thai, soups, burgers, gravy, pretty much all foods
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