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masonjar70

43 / M / Straight / Single

Oakland, California

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:06pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
"only the shallow truly know themselves" (Oscar Wilde) but here goes...
I would describe myself as funny, adventurous, artistic, affectionate and someone who loves to laugh and make others laugh and feel the levity and joy in life. I can be very silly and my sense of humor often crass and a little twisted. I'm down to earth, smart and very straight forward with people. I can usually find something positive in everyone. I'm passionate, decisive and have no problem deciding where to go for dinner.
I prefer intimate, meaningful conversation over larger groups or crowds. When I'm with someone special I enjoy being spontaneous, adventurous and romantic. The unknown excites me! Spontaneity and surprise always seem to deliver a special result because when we let ourselves get lost, figuratively and literally(fuck your G.P.S), we open ourselves up to the magic of life and allow ourselves to see the world through the bright eyes of a child. At that moment we are truly alive!
I would say that I'm happiest and most humbled when I'm in the mountains... biking, camping, hiking, snowboarding, or making art.
What inspires me is the sense of perpetual motion and the anticipation of being awe struck and inspired by mother nature... I love the destination but I equally enjoy getting there... I love the journey and I love road trips! I do my best thinking while driving.
I still believe in true love and would consider myself to be a very hopeful romantic. I've never been someone that gets involved in a relationship just for the sake of not being alone or avoiding loneliness. (Perhaps this is why I'm rarely in a romantic relationship... I think a lot of people settle and that's just not me.) I need that indescribable "connection" and am a hold out for the real thing. That said, I'm not looking for perfection or some unattainable ideal of a woman, nor am I looking for a female version of myself. That sounds boring. I am very aware that a good relationship is based on honesty, trust, compassion and compromise. I am a very open minded person but here are a few things I'm looking for in a woman: Ethical, compassionate, funny, fit, sexy, expressive, honest, passionate and healthy.
As I said before, I love spending time doing outdoor activities, but I am also a lover of the arts and am always game to hit a gallery opening, museum, concert or the theater. I'm a true urbanite.
Looking forward...
Mason
I’m really good at
Dreaming lucidly, Listening to others selflessly, kissing passionately, diplomacy, sleeping, laughing myself into tears, having fun, expressing myself, telling stories...
The first things people usually notice about me
People are comfortable telling me things... my openness...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The Wire, Deadwood, DE Kooning, Bukowski, Deer Tick, The Pixies, yeah yeah yeahs, Brave new world, 1984, The story of O, The Big Lebowski, breaking bad, David Sedaris, Wilco, Glenn Gould, Andre Segovia, crime novels, pasta, red wine, cheese, Johnny Cash, David bowie, f Scott Fitzgerald, nick drake... and the list goes on...
The six things I could never do without
Love, art, dreams, sex, the smell of the trees right after it rains, cooking with a beautiful woman, laughter and love!... that's seven. I don't like rules!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
unicorns and popcorn
the transgression of humanity
the stories i want to tell
personal trajectory
past lives
how well adjusted people on this site make themselves appear
psychic abilities
intuition
the color red
how rad my mother is and our conversations over the years
lucid dreaming
On a typical Friday night I am
Drinks with friends or a quiet night at home reading or watching a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm too private to admit in a public forum but get me alone and I'll tell you just about anything you want to know... I'm honest as hell, and often to a fault. Many people are shocked at what I'm willing to admit to a stranger. Try me.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 32–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
If you're up for a drink(alcoholic, coffee or tea) and good conversation...
Also, I think people have an easier time falling in love with ideas than they do people(myself included) and for this reason I like to keep the emailing to a minimum... let's not get too lost in fantasy world! A little chit-chat/ back and forth is fine but after a few emails lets get on with it! Either there's chemistry or not. Lets find out!
Mason