I am in the process of divorce and looking for some company. I have two daughters but not full time custody, so I have some free time. Funds are tight, if you have been through divorce you know what I mean. I am a huge music fan and can talk to almost anyone about it no matter your tastes, but mine lean towards the underground. I like taking walks, seeing art or enjoying the outdoors. I work in IT but I am not one of those that is tied to a playstation... would love to just share conversation over coffee to start.

Sense of humor but can also be intense and quiet. I may come across as arrogant but it's just that I find it hard to open up. If I feel comfortable around you I can be quite funny and even charming.

I like books by Vonnegut, John Irving, P.K. Dick and William Gibson. I am also interested in Astronomy. My favorite bands are Husker Du, The Flaming Lips, Slowdive, The Cure, New Order, Mastodon and Clutch. I love classical too.. Gustav Mahler is my favorite composer.

You are open minded, liberal (or not), musical, funny and don't mind a heavier guy.