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master-tom

46 / m / bisexual / available

Stockbridge, Georgia, United States

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dominant, open, and slightly evil

My self-summary Propose an edit

Well, just where do we start?

First of all, putting everything else aside I believe that a successful relationship moves well beyond the realm of sex, though that is like the icing on the cake in my opinion. A relationship without communication is doomed to failure. Why do I say this? Because I have seen many relationships fail for this very reason. Now more about me....

I am a Dominant, a Master to be exact. I believe the D/s M/s lifestyle is natural. BDSM can be a part of that but is again icing on the cake. I have a 24/7 slave that lives with me, we are planning marriage soon -- very soon. she is extremely dominant herself but chose to submit to me years ago.

Why am I here? Well that's a funny question. I set up the profile so I could take some of the tests and keep the results recorded. Then I thought "what the hey, might as well flesh it out a bit" so I am in the process of doing that. But still you ask "why is he here?" OK, ok. I get the hint. I am looking for that extra person or persons to be a part of our relationship, either short term or long term. They must be willing to submit to me, and be submissive to my slave. AKK you say? Then move on....

What in the world could I have to offer to the right person(s)? At the least an enlightening experience and maybe some good sex.... Anything more? Well the possibilities are endless....

If you have made it this far then at least you have an open mind, and maybe this intrigues you somewhat. Feel free to leave me a message, I will check in on occasion when life allows it. Also you could look me up on livejournal where I have also started putting some info....

May you find that which you are looking for....


What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

Currently I am working hard at getting ahead so that I can enjoy life to it's fullest. We own a home on 2 acres with a pool, but we want to be able to move onto a farm (20+ acres) in a few years and enjoy life more. I work full time, am a current titleholder (Southeast Master 2005) and am a part of the Atlanta leather community.

I'm really good at Propose an edit

Sizing a person up and seeing their potential. Taking control of a situation. Mind reading (if you believe that stuff).

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

My gentle Dominance, my smile, my laugh if they're lucky. If they are really lucky they get to know my firm stare, my controlled voice, and the feel of my hands lacing through their hair or on their backside as I correct them.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

Books: most sci-fi, though I tend to like the older authers better. I used to like to read computer books but they are starting to get tiring. Movies: Action/adventures, thrillers, sci-fi (of course) Music: I am quite eclectic and listen to a broad variety depending on my mood. I tend to like intrumentals when I am heavily concentrating but rock when I am driving. Foods: Again, rather eclectic, though I do not find the taste/texture of sushi to be pleasant. Just about any other food is good though :)

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

Communication, trust, happiness, friends, spirituality in some way, D/s.

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

What I would do with infinite resources. What I can do with the resources I have.

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

Typical? Well, it could range from a night at home "recharging the batteries" so to speak, or a night out with friends. The best friday nights are those intimate ones with candles, the appropriate music, and a willing person or persons to spend it with.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

According to a test I took, I do have a "girl brain" though I think that allows me to connect better and be more in touch with others.

You should message me if Propose an edit

You find me intriguing, you feel like there might be a connection here, or just want to say "hey".

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master-tom: 521 questions

Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 1" (1.85m).
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals, Casual encounters (sex partners)
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
N/A
Religion
Sign
Virgo and it's fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Banking / Financial / Real Estate
Income
$100,000-$150,000
Kids
N/A
Pets
Owns dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), French (Okay), German (Poorly), Latin (Okay), C++ (Fluently)

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