If you agree that a night in is better than a night at the club, we'll probably get along. If you agree that spending several hours planning and cooking food for that night in is completely appropriate, then it's pretty certain that we'll get along.
The point is not that I'm planning a life for two revolving around Pecorino Romano and Chianti although actually that sounds pretty good. Maybe we should plan that? The point was supposed to be that this says a few things about me:
1. I'm an INTJ. My scene is with a group of close friends, with people I know and care about. If you want to bring me to a nightclub, just know that you might be dragging me a little bit (although I'll hit up Blackbird any day!).
2. I put in effort for the people who mean a lot to me. Two weeks planning a party for friends is not uncommon for me. Neither is going far out of my way to see someone I haven't seen for some time.
3. I do love cooking. I've cooked a lot of French food the last 4 years and now I'm playing around to see if I want to change my focus, and if so to what.
So, that's a start. True, I can be pretty direct, intense, or inwardly oriented sometimes. But I'm also caring, focused, hilarious in rather ridiculous ways, cuddly, supportive and strong. If this sounds at all appealing to you, send a little message and maybe we can start something.