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a dad(dy), a friend, and a D in D/s

My self-summary Propose an edit

I have no idea what to put here. I'm just a dad trying to make his way in this very big world (in this very small town).

I am currently in a D/s relationship with someone I care for very much, but being exclusive and monogamous has failed for us. We have an open relationship, so we both see other people on the vanilla side. To that end, I'm really not here looking for love. I'm looking for people that are looking for buddies. Sex, or not, doesn't really matter. I'm a single dad with three kids. I need adult communication so I can get the fucking SpongeBob Square Pants theme out of my head. HELP!!!!!

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

Work, play, work, play, work, play. I wish it was really that easy, but I do a lot. Maybe if you really want to know you can ask me...

I'm really good at Propose an edit

Pretty much anything I really WANT to do. I like to think I'm a good dad to my boys. That's the only one that really matters...

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

My enormous erection. (jk It's not enormous.)

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

Grisham, and Crichton are probably my favorite authors. I'm pretty easy as far as movies and music go. I have 7500 songs in iTunes and my Netflix queue has everything from kids movies to horror. I stay away from "chick-flicks", unless I have a nice chick's leg to play with while watching it.

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

1) My kids
2) A good friend to talk to.
3) Great vodka martinis (Shaken, dry and a little bit dirty. Almost exactly opposite of #4, except maybe the little bit dirty part. )
4) A really good kisser on the other end of my lips
5) A good steak (medium please)
6) My Mac

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

The future. If I don't think about it, it'll never live up to my expectations.

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

Either with my kids trying to have a good time, or with a drink decompressing.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

I try not to admit private things publicly. I'll tell you anything in private though. ;-)

You should message me if Propose an edit

you know how to make a kick ass steak or a phenomenal martini. Or, even if you're just looking for someone interesting to talk to. Bring your A-game please.

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mattd97470: 1282 questions

Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners, Casual encounters (sex partners)
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer but it doesn't matter
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
$30,000-$40,000
Kids
Has children
Pets
Owns dogs
Languages
English

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