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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 20–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Aug 29
Native American, White
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Open relationship
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Okay), Chinese (Poorly)
My self-summary
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My profile is a mishmash of several years of coffee sundays, teetering highs and chasm waxing-- it's kinda ridiculous. Feel free to message me if you have anything to add. An image, a light, a concept.

Let us go then, you and I,
When the evening is spread out against the sky
Like a patient etherised upon a table;
Let us go, through certain half-deserted streets,
The muttering retreats
Of restless nights in one-night cheap hotels
And sawdust restaurants with oyster-shells:
Streets that follow like a tedious argument
Of insidious intent
To lead you to an overwhelming question …
Oh, do not ask, “What is it?”
Let us go and make our visit.

In the room the women come and go
Talking of Michelangelo.


ANFP: Still water runs deep, but occasionally is not so still.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm on sabbatical from teaching at an art school. i just got back from a zen monastery I was living at for the summer. i think about the place i live a lot. i bike. i watch movies, i think warmly about swimming in cold water. i think hot springs are pretty cool.

I'm interested someday in continuuuing on in documentary, anthropology, and/or telling ghost stories in south america.

things are just fine.
it's a line excerpted from a poem reflective of a hot-baked cement day some time and some days after i lost a better friend to belladonna. but, i don't know.

there's a beautiful beach, just off the highway and just south of monterey, that is composed of half-golfball-sized stones.

things are just fine.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
i'm a sensitive youngish man with some looks and a few moves. my attention runs down like water from big to small, generally as the day progresses. sublimated back up to the heavens, my distilled qualities then rain back down UPON THE WORLD.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my hair
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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En un beso, sabrás todo lo que he callado.

non fiction, articles on the internet, science fiction...

i read and write poetry, just for myself.


i love art films, studied and love documentaries.

album on power play for week of 9/28:

sing it: tren al surr...

bill callahan and the chili peppers

"i'm good at being uncomfortable, so i can't stop changing all the time" -Fiona

i take singing classes, mostly for myself.

shows of note: crooked vultures, the bad plus, smashing pumpkins, nine inch nails farewell show, sharon jones, fiona apple,

tren al suuurr...

i worked in nice restaurants serving and bartending for some time, so i know a bit about food and beer. and a lot about wine.
i'm recently vegan.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
various love, touch
screens of light
fruits and veggies
conversational poetry
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
suuuuhhhhhnnnnnnnnsssshhhhhhiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiayyyyyyyayayayayihhhiiiiiiiiiiyiiyiiiyiiinnnnnnnnneeeeeegggghhhhh. (beat for inhale) sweeeeeeeeeet loooooove bahhhhyyyyyyyee the booaaarrrdddd.

old wooden ships, computers, service, pateando piedras, wine, the internet, buenos aires and paraguay, food, health, land, sex,

‘Derby Day, Henley Regatta, Cowes, the twelfth of August, a cup final, the dog races, the pin table, the dart board, Wensleydale cheese, boiled cabbage cut into sections, beetroot in vinegar, nineteenth-century Gothic churches and the music of Elgar’
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i am enchanted with one on one interactions. they're almost all i do. i do think, however, that i need more group activity to contrast the intensity.

here's a wall i throw stuff on:
You should message me if
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i do look for new friends, so don't hesitate to message me for non-romantic purposes.

"Slapstick thinker with refined sensibilities seeks a saint-like sinner with insanely cool style for a long-distance joyride towards the outskirts of Nirvana. Established meditation practice and a good bedside manner are desirable. Would it be too much to ask that you might also have a high level of emotional intelligence without boring me to death with your maturity? Is it possible that you'll be an entertaining talker who also knows how to listen with your wild heart turned up all the way? Let's keep reinventing ourselves forever."

and you dance. nothing fancy. but maybe sometimes as if your movement sustains the dharma of the world.

everything is important.