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32 M Chicago, IL

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 21–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 6
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I am too old to just give joking answers to all these questions. I like conversations.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a freelance journalist and I also teach and do comedy and think about basketball a lot and write about basketball
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I have a good memory
The first things people usually notice about me
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my prominent face tattoo of the Millennium Park bean. I don't really know
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Culture! I used to read a lot of books and now I don't, which I don't feel great about. My reading preferences have changed a lot over the years, I think, but one of my reading phases was reading all of Don DeLillo's books. I also really like Raymond Chandler and wry detective novels.

Some "all-time" favorite movies include Jackie Brown and Risky Business, a movie that I have made forceful intellectual arguments for its secret brilliance

I'm not sure if I'm really totally a vegetarian anymore, food-wise. I used to eat almost exclusively at tacquerias but I am trying to eat healthier.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
It's semi-interesting to think of the implications of this question. Like, does everything else in life proceed as it always did -- including my personal status as someone living in a certain apartment in Chicago as a freelance journalist and having certain family and friends. Am I not subsequently able to acquire things?

I'm not sure if there's anything I could do without. Things like phone or bed or computer or heat seem universal for my particular world. I'm addicted to coffee in the morning, so i could put coffee maker. The more I write about this question the more obnoxious I sound. I guess it would be nice to keep my collection of old basketball books and magazines. I lost the bulk of my music collection, and many books, to bed bugs in a different apartment three years ago.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
shapes, basketball, teeth, the 1980s
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
picture the most impressive urban activity you can with the coolest, best-looking people and that's what I'm doing.

Hopefully, I'm spending Friday night with my friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'll confess anything
You should message me if
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you are a woman interested in going on a date with me. Or if you're completely disinterested in going on a date with me but would talk with me for a long time about the sociocultural ramifications of the O.J. Simpson trial.