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33 Belleville, IL Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 12
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body type
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Has a kid, and might want more
Has dogs

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My self-summary
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THIS is about as real as it gets….

I don’t know if I’ll find “the one” online, but hey I’m not going to meet her sitting at home and I’m not looking in bars. Sadly, okc has become a pastime for me… I really just want one girl to connect with and someday marry, but until I find her I’m going to get out and enjoy myself. I’m not in a rush and I’m not going to settle, but I totally prefer being in a relationship than not. I also like meeting new people, hearing new stories/ideas and sharing my own. It occurred to me I will have to find a new “hobby” when I settle down; don’t worry I've got lots of ideas… writing a book, starting a support group, owning a home, playing a sport (golf/tennis). I don’t want a pen-pal, if you don’t want to meet in person; there is no need to write me. I’m blunt and to the point, that's my best and worst quality. If I find you interesting, fun or cute, I will wait to meet you; I just don’t see the need in it. Let’s face facts, looks matter. It doesn't matter if you like big or small everyone has their “type” and furthermore anyone can pretend to be anything they want online. Online is not creepier than meeting someone in a bar, the supermarket or even school. People can pretend to be nice in person too… Only time will tell if they are real. If you are going to invest time in getting to know someone, should it not be someone you are attracted to? Besides if you don't like the way you look, change it! Your looks are the simplest thing to change (not easy, but not complex!)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Bringing sexy back, lol
Seriously, just trying to be a good dad and keep my head up. I have a car, even if it's a beater, I have a job, even if i don't like it and I've got a great future (even if it isn't close).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening and making people feel good. Having fun and making people smile. Public speaking...
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm tall with blue eyes, wide shoulders and a goofy grin.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Cinnamon Toast Crunch
The Sword of Truth series... need I say more?
Not rap
Family Guy
Doctor Who
Army of Darkness
Happy Gilmore
Sleeping Beauty
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Besides air, water and love (friends, family, etc.):
sex (hey, just being honest!)
toilet paper
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Studies show women with a pear shaped frame are healthier than those more like apples. I’d love to say that looks are not important, but I haven’t figured out a way to be attracted to round girls… Curvy girls I find hot, if they're not bigger than me, lol. I tend to date short girls with light eyes, but that is not a requirement.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
When I'm not saving babies from burning buildings or giving Donald Trump stock tips, I'm home, or hanging out with my friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My nieces call me uncle monkey
You should message me if
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you are happy with who you are but always working on improving (bonus if you can say the same about your life!)
You can laugh at yourself and take a joke.
You enjoy staying in and going out.
You have your own opinion and are ok that I have mine.
You want someone stable in your life.
You find more creative ways than drinking to spend your time.