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30 / M / straight / Single

Queens, New York

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New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
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Pisces and it matters a lot
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Likes dogs and Likes cats
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English (Poorly)

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I am Bruno, not-straight, and total fashionista.

My Self-Summary

my self-summary. i am unnormal type guy. i'm one of those crazy kids who knows it all and has all the answers.. except i realize i really have an incredibly low level of intelligence, so i'm doing my best to improve that. the okcupid questions and tests have been helping me to learn new things

What I’m doing with my life

i'm sorry girls, especially older girls, i have nothing to offer you in
way of financial security. I'm years away from settling down and raising a family along with a series of lovable household pets. I am highly motivated, extremely driven, and very self-focused. this translates into me not being available as much as certain people would like me to be. i can't spend hours on the phone each day. I care, i really do, but i can't devote too much time to being a lover-boy. I respect women completely and enjoying meeting new people. I found that being direct and open with people is not only ethical but also more efficient, and healthier. I am open to dating but nothing too serious, too fast. i need my space. I'm very much a loner type person, naturally introverted despite being highly social. basically in a nut shell - i love the people in my life and will always be there for them in a time of need, but i require a large amount of time to my self and am extremely consumed with my goals, etc. I get along well with people who are inquisitive, people who are curious and like to learn new things. i read a lot. i rarely watch tv. i enjoy consuming alcohol about once a week, i'm on a ridiculously strict diet that can be boring if i happen to be dating a 'foodie' and she wants me to try all these foods but i won't. i don't watch violence or horror (or the news), ever.. i have a real strict policy with that one. i happen to be extremely flexible, adaptable, and easy-going...i just know what i like and don't like.. and choose not to engage with people, places, or things that don't appeal to me. i like people who possess qualities like consideration and kindness. i don't like laughing at the expense of others. i'm a lot more empathetic than i'd like to be, and it's often a liability. i don't get along well with very mainstream, straight-edge, listen to your parents, go to grad school, become a lawyer type people. i like sex and will often bring it up in conversation if i feel like it. i believe growing up in this society we've been programed for censorship in a lot of ways and it's a barrier to connection with other people, and it hinders our ability to freely express ourselves. i setup this okcupid thing so i can chat with people while i work on computer related things. i run a martial arts school by profession. i teach martial arts, do personal coaching, and even made money as a date coach. that was fun. i spend a lot of time studying marketing. lately its been marketing, marketing, marketing. sometimes i forgot to stop working and will stay up and skip a night's sleep here and there. when i do decide to hangout, it's a lot of fun for me cause i am so extreme with my discipline at times, that's it's like letting a wild animal out of a cage. i view chatting as a fun and harmless way to get to make new friends and connect with people and joke around and break up the tension of the day. if i we wind up going out on a DATE though, it's going to be super serious. like im talking im gonna do everything in my power to convince my romantic interest that i am the man for her... roses, candy, expensive dinners, boob-jobs, whatever it takes, i will devote my entire life to her and worship the ground she walks on because that's what a FUN date is all about. yeah, im sarcastic at times, it's a form of stupidity that plagues me. btw, the best time to write up your profile is after a few drinks, it's when you're most clear minded. did i mention i like to drink alcohol. if i decide to meet someone from the online world id only be interested in a date that involved hanging out somewhere casual and having a few drinks... either that are snorkeling

I’m really good at

i teach martial arts. i don't care for fighting nearly as much as i used to - now i just want to have fun, hangout, and drink... so i'm gonna become an investor instead, like one of those smart rich white guys you see on CNBC (except not fat, a lot of those guys are fat)

The first things people usually notice about me

I'm sparkling!!

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

i watch mainly comedies cause i like to laugh

i will never watch horror or super serious TV or movies like CSI or the news - i think life has enough drama without the media adding to it

The six things I could never do without

1. Okcupid plays a major role in my life. I spend about 30 to 40 hours a week IMing 100's of women.. very few respond.
Then, it takes me extra time to send messages to all the girls that don't respond.. asking them important questions like "why didn't you respond to my message?" I think it's important to let them know that regardless of what they think, i think we have chemistry based on my review of their profile and they should be ready to give me their phone number and meet me even though this is the internet and they know nothing about me

I spend a lot of time thinking about

If i was a robot in my past life

On a typical Friday night I am

Friday is the day when most employers release their employees from indentured servitude long enough for them to forget just how much they hate their jobs before monday starts again -- so this is a great time to go out and meet people cause they're usually in a great mood -- so naturally on a friday night i am engaging in an assortment of social activities. i combine alcohol use with these activities and it proves to be a most enjoyable mixture. i often can be found in the city, the capital of the world, the concrete jungle, NYC that is...my favorite place in the entire world

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

i'm a sucker for bunny rabbits

also, and very peculiar to me, i've never gotten along very well with anyone living in Brooklyn. I have theories as to why, but all of them
are unfounded and still pending review

You should message me if

you are first and foremost a good person with class, good intentions, and who treats other people (and animals) well. secondly, if you are not a prude type person who is easily offended and difficult to have a normal conversation with. thirdly, you can keep it real and be yourself