Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'll keep this simple, and let curiosity spin its evil web.
Mwuahaha!!! I'm 36 and a single parent. He'll be twelve this
- in fate, it all happens for a reason, however, I've no clue what
that reason is, yet.
- that Karma does exist. Bad people get their
- that when I put my Ipod on shuffle, that It's my life's
soundtrack playing in the background.
- that stressing out won't make the problem go away.
- the children are our future. :P
- in the power of laughter.
- that for everything that happens in life, there's a movie quote
or song lyric that perfectly describes it.
- that there's a match out there for everyone.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
This is the part where I get to explain what I do for a living.
If I explain it here, (hopefully you'll have read this. :P) since
whenever I'm asked that question... there's usually an
uncomfortable silence that lingers in the air after I explain what
I do. Kind of like the John Travolta and Uma Thurman scene in Pulp
Fiction, the one where they are eating dinner at the 50s restaurant
and talking about silence?
I'm a system specialist in the building automation industry. In a
nutshell... we control buildings with computers. We find ways to
conserve energy which helps save money and the environment.
Everything from electric,security, and temperature, you name it and
we control it. Now that you kinda have an idea as to what I do,
you're probably thinking to yourself, "Ahh... so this a-hole is the
reason why I need a space heater in the middle of July!!!" :P
I bring a laptop onto a construction site. It's a mixture of brain
and brawn...mental and physical work. The best of both
I find myself learning and at the same time teaching on a daily
basis. No two days are ever alike. It's the challenging days that
are the most intense and yet, most fun as well. I must admit that I
love what I do.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
smiling... oh, and blowing a kick-ass bubble!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
"I know you must get this a lot...but...you have such beautiful
eyes." Yes, I do have green eyes. (nope, unfortunately, they're not
the coveted Big Trouble In Little China green eyes.) Whenever
someone has mentioned it, or any other compliment... I say thank
you. My father constantly reminded me while I was growing up to
accept any compliment humbly & graciously no matter how many
times it's been said to you. That's not entirely true... I smile a
"Who...me? Really? Aww-gee-shucks, mam"-like smile. You know that
one right? The smile that makes it look like you have no eyes or
that you're high as hell? Then I say thanks...as graciously &
humbly as I can.
On a side note... Don't be afraid to pay compliments to people,
even strangers. If there's something you notice and like about a
person, whether it's a reference on t-shirt or their smile...
mention it to them. For starters, it's a great ice-breaker. More
importantly, you get the chance to make someone feel all "warm,
melty & giddy" on the inside, which indirectly & directly
contributes to saving the world & humanity by spreading those
good vibes & positive energy. :-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I've thought about this question a lot and I finally came up with
I can't play favorites... it would be unfair to the others. :P
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A sense of humor
The drop of a bassline. Whether it be funky, kicking, sick, phat,
epic, foot tapping, butt moving, body grooving, earth
Cologne or some other nice smelling type of product associated with
Dancing to the beat of life...or grooving to the beat of life...or
dancing to the beat of the drum...or just plain dancing in
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How all roads lead to the dancefloor.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Something music related, no doubt. I go out to listen to new and
favorite artists perform. Or... it could be going to support
friends and their musical ventures. Or...on occasion, it's me
that's performing. Either way, there will be lots of dancing, funky
beats, good vibes, meeting up with friends, and getting bromanced
by complete strangers. It's weird, but I kinda understand why. When
I'm out, I enjoy my surroundings and the experience regardless of
how good or bad it actually is. I don't go out to get fucked up, as
I can get my soulful white boy groove on the dancefloor without
having to drink. When you don't need liquid courage to get your cha
cha slide on, it's quite zen-ish. If you're the type that has to
drink in order to dance... It's all good, been there myself. If
you're worried about what others think...don't. If 1 out of 10
people are cracking on you and your moves, there's 7 others seeing
you have a blast and feed off of that. (That's only 8, yes, I
know... You really don't want to know what the other two are
thinking. It's for the best if we leave them be. Hehe) I don't go
out looking to chase tail. Who needs to do that when there's
okcupid,right?!!? I AM SOOO JOKING around right now, (By now, I
wonder if you've started to wonder that this boy might have a sense
of humor. I'm not saying I'm a comedian, not even close. I think my
funny to not funny ratio is approx. 1 out of 7 or was it 2 out of
33? My specialty is quick witted pg-13 one liners that are often
corny and pun of a kind. Hmm...now that I think about it, I would
totally bromance the shit outta me. (I can't believe I have to add
this, but... If you're thinking about messaging me to pimp me out
to your buddy cause you think he needs new friends, don't. It never
ends well. Someone always winds up getting hurt. :-P)
Thank goodness, this question is about Friday night, and a typical
one at that. Could you imagine?? :-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You'll have to ask me to find out that one...
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