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34 M Alexandria, VA

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  • Ages 25–55
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  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Sep 28
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has dogs and likes cats
English, French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Currently in the Washington DC area for grad school as a Physician Assistant

I love to read, anything from fantasy fiction to science and spirituality. A few of my favorite books are Watership Down by Richard Adams, In Cold Blood by Truman Capote, and the Tao of Physics by Fritjof Capra which changed the way I see the world. I love to travel, I have been around the world twice and my goal is to see all 7 continents, Antarctica is next.

My main passion has always been movies. I went to film school, I worked in LA as an editor, I saw Avatar at midnight because I didn't want to wait until the next day. I love dinner and a movie as a first date (after the coffee/drinks date of course), although I prefer to switch the order and see the movie first. You spend that time in the theater sharing a positive experience(assuming the movie was good, lol) and then you have a jumping off point at dinner to get acquainted.

I have 2 awesome dogs, Fox is a purebreed Shiba Inu, and Zoe is a St. Bernard and various other kinds mutt. Both are very friendly and love people.

So what kind of woman am I looking for? I like strong personalities, confidence, and someone who is emotionally mature and doesn't play games in relationships.

So that is me in a nutshell, if you would like to know more, you'll have to find out in person. I'll sign off with one of my favorite quotes:

"Men fear thought as they fear nothing else on earth -- more than ruin -- more even than death.... Thought is subversive and revolutionary, destructive and terrible, thought is merciless to privilege, established institutions, and comfortable habit. Thought looks into the pit of hell and is not afraid. Thought is great and swift and free, the light of the world, and the chief glory of man."
Bertrand Russell
What I’m doing with my life
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I was a freelance editor in LA, but when the economy tanked the work started drying up I decided to find a new lot in life. I joined the National Guard as a medic and moved up to Northern Cali to be closer to my family. Now I'm in Portland working on the pre-reqs for Physician Assistant school, yaaaay school, haha.

Lately I've been planning my bucket list, which I hope to accomplish quickly enough to make several more bucket lists. My next 3 destinations are Machu Picchu (hopefully in April), Antarctica after grad school is over, and trekking to the Everest Base Camp the year after that. So a note to potential life-mates....if you want to come on any of those we may be a good match ;)
I’m really good at
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Being a ninja.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My shoes, they're awesome. Fivefingers.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: U2, Bruce Springsteen, Rolling Stones, Peter Gabriel, Nine Inch Nails, Massive Attack, Hans Zimmer, Sigur Ros, Yoko Kanno, Eminem, The Who, Explosions in the Sky, Goldfrapp, Bjork, Frou Frou, Imogen Heap, Kate Havnevik. I like a lot of different artists and styles, whatever sounds good really....these are just some of my consistent preferences.

Books: The Tao of Physics, Watership Down, In Cold Blood, Alan Moore's Watchmen, Harry Potter. The Malazan Book Of The Fallen series by Stephen Erikson. David Gemmell, R.A. Salvatore, George R. R. Martin(Game of Thrones to all of you HBO junkies).

Movies: Gravity, The Grey, True Romance, I Saw The Devil, Scott Pilgrim Vs. The World, The Fall, Drive, Wall-E, The Shawshank Redemption, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Time and Tide, The Iron Giant, Hero, The Thin Red Line, Hard Boiled, Blade Runner, Aliens, Narc, Inception, Harry Potter series, Fellowship of the Ring, Rocky, Any Given Sunday, Heat, Ninja Scroll, Batman Begins/The Dark Knight, Lawrence of Arabia, Once Upon a Time in China. Sympathy for Mr Vengeance, Sympathy for Lady Vengeance, 300, Infernal Affairs, The Thin Red Line. Basically anything by Christopher Nolan, Chan Wook Park, Tony Scott, Jonnie To, James Cameron, and Joe Carnahan.

TV: Arrested Development, Community, It's Always Sunny In Philadelphia, The Office, Parks and Recreation, Justified, The Wire, Burn Notice, Firefly, Game of Thrones, Friday Night Lights, Doctor Who, Archer.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My 2 dogs are mah bebbes!
My computer...yeah, technophile here.
Love and support from my family.
Same from my friends, some of whom I've known since I was a toddler. We may live all over the world now, but that doesn't matter a bit.
Rooster Sauce...just hook it into my veins!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life. The Universe. Everything. 42.
This: (
Planning for the zombiepocalypse, totally gonna use a katana sword, thats just too awesome not to.
Wondering why so many people on this site get that "STALE is to STEAL" question wrong.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Planning my next adventure...Hiking the Andes! Antarctica! Everest Base Camp! So many places left to see and do, who wants to come?
Going to a movie, hanging out with my pups...
Ok, mostly homework.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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*Deep raspy voice* If I stay there can be no party. I must be out there in the night, staying vigilant. Where ever a party needs to be saved, I'm there. Where ever there are masks or if there's tom foolery in joy, I'm there. But sometimes I'm not because I'm out there in the night staying vigilant, watching, lurking, running, jumping, hurdling, sleeping. No I can't sleep. You sleep, I'm awake. I don't sleep. I don't blink. Am I a bird? No, I'm a bat. I am Batman. Or am I? Yes, I am Batman.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You recognize the quote from "The most private thing I'm willing to admit" section(hint, its in the favorite tv shows section).
You are not trying to get me to join some website.
You like to work out/crossfit/whatever your fitness passion may be.
You have to like dogs. Or at least my dogs...but they are awesome.
You like what you see here and you think I might feel the same way about you.
Also if you have a lot of tattoos, please jump to the front of the line. That for me. Not a requirement, of course.