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41 Hastings, MN Man


I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 32–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:45pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly other
Other, but not too serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from high school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm glad to see others have a hard time with this.

What do I do? I am a professional driver, I also own my own DJ / Karaoke company which I enjoy a ton! I am a total techie. I love sports, especially football hockey and baseball. I try to make it to one Vikings / Wild game and a few Twins games a year, I also do public address for a local baseball team. I can't wait to get out on the motorcycle. I'm hoping to do more weekend road trips with it this summer which are more fun with the right companion. I love both being outdoors hiking, biking or camping. I am just fine indoors too, hanging at a bar singing karaoke, bowling, practicing Taekwondo, giving a massage, watching a movie or playing a video game with the family. Speaking of family, I have 2 kids who are with me every other weekend, some holidays and part of the summer. They are a very important part of my life and mean the world to me, even on days when duct tape looks like the best option. I'm happy having 2 of my own and its great if you have your own, I just don't see me making any more.

I'm definitely looking to find the one, but know that's not usually an instant process. I'm pretty much open to anything. Serious relationship, dating, friends, fun. I am at a point in my life that I know what I want / like. I'm happy with me. I love myself unconditionally & I am ready to share that love in a relationship with someone of the same mindset. I am not interested in mind games or helping you get over your ex. I'm willing to put forth the effort and make time to get to know you, I expect the same.

Physically: My ideal gal has a smile & eyes that "make me melt." Not too big not too small, it's even ok if she has a goal of getting healthier / in better shape. I usually don't find women taller than me attractive, nor do I find BBW that way either. Proportioned and curvy in a healthy way is what I look for. Good personal hygiene is a must. I know everyone is beautiful but not everyone is attractive to me. That is not meant to sound jerkish, I just know what I have found attractive.

Personality wise; Fun to talk with & not a stick in the mud for activities are a must. I refuse to base a relationship on looks alone, that is just silly. Someone that is willing to put their heart & soul into a relationship and is ready to receive the same. I think physical communication is just as important as verbal & often a well timed hug or kiss can say more than a 1000 words. Relationships based on sex never last, but sex is an integral part of a relationship. Intelligence is sexy. Being nerdy, leaning more to the science fiction / fantasy side is awesome.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work for MN Coaches as a bus driver. Love the job, wish there were more consistent hours. I own my own DJ / Karaoke Company and I love that work too. I am also the president of the board of directors/public relations guy for an amateur baseball team. It's really not as important or busy as it may sound, but I do get to see a lot of baseball over the summer and I am ok with that. Part of that has me doing public address for games and I love it.
I’m really good at
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Computers, Singing, Video Games, fixing things, making people laugh, massages, embarrassing friends, bowling, tripping up steps, mixing up caps vs no Caps.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, then, if they are lucky enough to get a brief massage, they fall in love with my hands.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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TV : Dr. Who, Big Bang Theory, Almost Human, Sleepy Hollow, CSI, NCIS, Criminal Minds, Warehouse 13. Old 80's shows like A-Team, Knight Rider, Airwolf. I need to catch up on How I met your mother and Modern Family, but there is only so much time in the day.
Books : 20,000 leagues under the sea, Journey to the center of the earth, LotR set. Dresden Files
Music : Country, Rock, 80's. I DJ, so I listen to a lot of different stuff.
Food : Plain food. Pizza, Chicken, Hamburgers, Steak.
The six things I could never do without
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1. My Kids
2. Family
3. Cell phone
4. Internet (Facebook, Email.)
5. Music
6. You?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
All sorts of stuff. Why are organized religions so screwed up? What will the Twins/Vikings do this year? What is the meaning of life? Boxers or briefs? Do these socks make me look fat? Why haven't you contacted me yet? Am I really as good at kissing as I've been told I am?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depends, I could be with my kids, my friends or DJ'ING somewhere.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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This one time, at scout camp... Naw, I can't. There are too many things. Just ask and I shall tell you!
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