Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a middle aged young looking business executive type who
seemingly is the typical stereotype of the suburban dad, but
underneath that uniform is the heart of an engaging, very open
minded, personable, multi dimensional, off of the beaten path
eclectic leaning person who can not be put into a particular
I am also a single dad with a teenager, a native new yorker with an
east coast sensibility mixed with California spirit.
I am non judgmental, open minded, and non jealous. ESFJ
What I’m doing with my life
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Earning a living, putting one child through college and getting
ready for another, trying to find time to express my true an a free
and uninhibited way.
Continually trying to learn, help in my small way to fix the world,
explore the various arts and the world around us, and launch my
kids right as they rapidly approach adulthood.
What I am not doing but would like to reconnect with is my passion
for horses, the raising, riding and community of the equestrian
I’m really good at
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making others feel good, wanted and desired, as well as making
others feel comfortable and safe to be uninhibited.
very orally adept- give good phone and good conversation, etc. -
much better than my written communication skills (ok to go with the
The first things people usually notice about me
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my eyes connecting with theirs
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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movies include: Harold & Maude, Out of Africa, Dances with
Wolves, Lost in Translation, Y Tu Mama Tambien, Amile, Ice Storm,
American Beauty, Frieda, Casablanca,Citizen Kane, The Producers
(Gene Wilder- Zero Mostel) Magnolia, Summer Lovers, My Cousin
Vinny, Secretary,The King's Speech, Moneyball, Godfather series,
Unbearable Lightness of Being, Goodfellas, Gladiator, Annie
Hall,Thirteen Days, etc etc
Music- XM sattelite radio- start at deep tracks and go all over the
food- yes - off of fried food and red meat
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
people and watching their interactions
information and communication
sensuality, touch, and feelings
freedom for myself and all others
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the various dynamics of different relationship paradigms and the
art of the possible.
how to keep everything in my life on track and still find my horse
ranch to live on in the woods while maintaining an eclectic urban
presence- and still travel the world and become immersed in other
cultures and customs.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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is that I get more pleasure out of experiencing others receiving
pleasure than my own
You should message me if
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any of the above strikes a chord with you-
or you just want a new like minded friend-
or if you have ever wanted to express or try something in an
atmosphere with someone who is non judgmenta., open minded, and
revels in others experimenting and searching for the art of the
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