Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Five adjectives to describe the first impression I think people
Rational, absurd, compassionate, adventurous, single minded.
I'm going to keep this brief for the sake of the reader, if it was
up to me I would write half a page. I have lived in Tulsa for most
of my life to the point that my literary intellectual tendancies
have had the edges rounded off with country music and cowboy hats.
It has not been a conscious effort on my part, more of a slow
process engendered by living amongst the locals.
I work in a behavioural health setting with teenage boys
specifically, however my work sometimes broadly deals with children
aged 5-17. Which is a fancy way of saying I work in a home for
deranged children, the funny farm, the nuthouse. I love my
My hobbies and coping skills overlap and include extensive reading,
working out, singing and playing with my dog. I also enjoy going to
plays and movies, sampling new and interesting places to eat, and
sitting around a coffee shop expounding upon any topic at
I'm quite literally in love with life, I want to meet someone who
is as well. This world can be a playground of possibilities, if you
know how to make it happen.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm working full time right now as a Mental Health Tech, I was in
school but am currently taking a short break.... Outside of my
career, I am constantly trying to develop myself further.
I'm a work in progress. I'm learning to sword fight, educating
myself about anything and everything I could possibly need to know
and quite a bit that I probably don't need to know. For instance;
did you know that giraffes have a special sponge in their head so
that when they lean over to take a drink their heads don't
If you didn't don't feel bad, it's an entirely meaningless piece of
trivia; That is unless you plan to be a large animal vet living in
africa or working for a zoo........ I go off on tangents quite a
I'm both a dark and optimistic philosopher, and that really does
sum it all up. At the end of the day I'd rather know that my
philosophy works than be happy. Happiness is fleeting, while
figuring out what is really going on is forever. Not that I am of
the particular opinion that it is good for you to know what is
going on, but intellectual advancement has nothing to do with what
is good for you.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at being creative, fixing things, pushing myself,
communication, seeing myself objectively. I'm best at staying calm
under pressure and doing things that I didn't know I could do.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably that I'm weird, which I've always taken as a compliment. I
say some pretty off the wall stuff, or have some off the wall
ideas, just to be different.
Physically? That my face looks very young. Which is kind of... eh.
But I try to remember when they say that, that someday I will be 60
and look like I'm still in my prime. There's always a silver
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Well, first of all, there are too many to count.
As far as books go Kurt Vonnegut books, like Cats Cradle and Sirens
of Titan, are pretty high up there. Some other authors include:
Christopher Buckley, Larry Niven, HP Lovecraft, John Scalzi and
Michael Crichton, for a start.
I like too many movies to list, and that is highly subject to mood.
I'm a big fan of documentaries as well.
TV shows: Doctor Who, Ghost Whisperer, Two and a Half Men, How I
met your Mother, 3rd Rock from the Sun, and a few more I can't
think of right now.
Music? Lots of everything, but classic rock has to be my favorite
stuff. Specific artists include Buster Poindexter, Meatloaf, They
Might Be Giants, Lemon Demon, Logan Whitehurst, The Beach Boys,
Queen, Adam Ant, Devo, Pain, and NRBQ, Jonathan Coulton, Eminem.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My bicycle, home pc, my dog, sunsets, access to lots of books, some
sort of meaningful quest.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What it's all about. Where my life is going.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at present the answer is taking care of the kiddos at work.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I have absolutely no idea what I'm doing. My primary vocation
is living life, and my primary drive is to discover why. Dispite
the appearance of knowledge the only true wisdom is knowing that I
know nothing. Most of the time I'm doing what seems like a good
idea or in character given my personality.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you need an odd, well dressed man in your life, I'm probably
guy. If you are interested in a different sort of experience
friendship or a relationship. Also if you have a working time
machine or access to any sort of advanced alien technology, you
know, just on the offchance.
If you haven't met the person you want to wake up next to every day
for the rest of your life. If you don't want to miss the chance
that you might.
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