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31 M Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Bi women only
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Oct 19
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Not at all
Other, and laughing about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Musical polymath, martial artist, anti-capitalist, polyamorous, kinkster, switch. I'm deep in love with a brilliant person, in a long-term relationship with a chosen family and new to the city. I play a mean guitar. In my early life I groomed myself to be a dirty weirdo and am still growing out of it. I put of lot of energy into balancing self-expression with anti-oppression. Revolutionary anti-capitalist politics. Free all prisoners. Fuck the police. Fuck their system.
What I’m doing with my life
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Training kung fu. Preparing a record for release in November.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Living with relative comfort in bad places: I'm confident I had one of the worst apartments in NYC. I've made it pretty cozy and I payed nothing to live there. You should probably see it before it falls over.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I look like a movie villain: bald and bearded.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Currently reading "Rolling Back Revolution" by Ivan Molloy.

I like agitated guitar music, metal, free jazz and funk. Bruce Springsteen. The USA Is A Monster. Funkadelic. Manowar. Phish.

I like Raw Meal meal replacement powder and green tea. And red meat. Recently started cooking well out of nowhere. I've always been a spice hound. I will eat the spiciest thing you've never heard of and then I will do it again. It gets me high.

I love Star Wars (all the episodes and the Clone Wars show). I hate most movies, but I'll watch their bootlegs while practicing guitar.

I like the opera but can't afford to go.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Would-be liberatory structures that reify the systems of oppression they claim to oppose. Rock. Power change. Bodies. Guitar distortion and perfect amps.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working on an extended psych-industrial jam.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't know how to flirt and I'm very shy. But I'll tell the truth about most things.
You should message me if
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You want a sexy activity partner with whom you will learn about yourself and who will humbly learn from you.

Fuck the police.