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  • Ages 18–40
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  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

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Last online
Yesterday – 11:55am
Straight, Questioning
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Not at all
Other and laughing about it
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Musical polymath, martial artist, anti-capitalist, non-negotiably polyamorous, kinky, switch, sober. I'm deep in love with a brilliant person and I want more! I play a mean guitar. Extreme mind and heart makes for a weird guy. I'm extremely sensitive, deeply perceptive, and I put of lot of energy into balancing self-expression with anti-oppression. Revolutionist, anti-capitalist politics.

Looking for sexy activity partners for activities, sex, and/or sexy activities, but am really open to long-term relationships and fluid formations. Also jamming and sparring partners. In any case, I appreciate a hangout that results in bruises.

Fuck the police.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a soundguy/stagehand for money, which means working when and where the wind blows. I play music as much as I breathe, produce psych-rock records, and seriously train kung fu. I show up at street actions and meetings. I am in an esoteric self-healing practice and aspire to expand it: more eso than ter every day. Intersectional feminism and karaoke.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, singing, playing music, audio engineering, being white and for black power, energy healing, driving too fast.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I look like a movie villain: bald and bearded.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like agitated guitar music, metal, avant garde and cosmic jazz, krautrock and funk. Bruce Springsteen. The USA Is A Monster. Funkadelic. Manowar. Phish. Pharoah Sanders, Sonny Sharrock and Jimi Hendrix are my major heros. I like loooooong jams. I have Sleep's "Dopesmoker" stuck in my head. All of it.

Spinning Freddie and Albert King, and a lot of ZZ Top right now.

Meat n' veg. Super spicy things.

Current book: The Failure of Nonviolence.

As for film, I mostly like Mad Max: Fury Road. I've seen it so many times: as porn, as politics, as sound art. Every time there's something new. Have an itch to write a theory of new media based solely on this movie: it's politics are a complicated counter-revolutionary liberal feminism and an apparent divorce from colonial history on it's shiny, shiny surface. But it's also a feminist reclaiming of biblical myth, a buddy comedy that doesn't judge wrong the mental illness of a protagonist (personally important to me), villifies beauty culture and is Marxist.

Bob's Burgers. Bob's Fucking Burgers. I love that show and that family. They don't shame each other. I wish everyone was like that.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Growing into fearless polyamory as a revolutionist. Rock. Power exchange. Bodies. Guitar distortion and perfect amps.

Also, white people don't have spirit animals. Shut up white people!

Seriously though, replace your cultural appropriation with an education in disproportionately directed state violence.

This is the last and only moment in a life which does not belong to you. What now?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I did not become someone different, that I did not want to be; I'm new here; show me around?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't know how to flirt and I'm very shy, but I'm pretty easy. Your pleasure is my pleasure in a big, big way. Also, I keep almost entirely sober for my mental health. Also, I'm on the spectrum and sometimes everything is too loud or too bright or too quiet or too dim or metaphorical to understand. Also, there's not much I won't say.
You should message me if
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You are weird AND not particularly possessive.

It sounds like fun to fuck AND be in the same band.

You are sincere and try hard.

You think this joke is funny: what's the difference between a baby and a bag of cocaine?

Eric Clapton wouldn't let a bag of coke fall out a window.

Fuck the police.