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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:23pm
Straight, Questioning
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
A little extra
Strictly other
Not at all
Other, and laughing about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Less than $20,000
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I'm leaving town real soon. Not looking for long-term romance, but am for long-term friendship with current erotics.

Musical polymath, martial artist, anti-capitalist, polyamorous, kinkster, switch, sober. I'm deep in love with a brilliant person. I play a mean guitar. Extreme mind and heart makes for a weird guy. I put of lot of energy into balancing self-expression with anti-oppression. Revolutionary anti-capitalist politics.

Mostly looking for sexy activity partners for activities, sex, and/or sexy activites. Also jamming and sparring partners. In any case, I appreciate a hangout that results in bruises.

Fuck the police.
What I’m doing with my life
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No longer houseless, and less jobless. I'm a stagehand for money, which means working when the wind blows. My mostly dead band died so I'm out to start/join new ones. Or leave town.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, singing, playing music, audio engineering, being white and for black power, energy healing, driving too fast.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I look like a movie villain: bald and bearded.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Currently reading Pulp, by Bukowski. Think I'm over this guy as a novelist.

I like agitated guitar music, metal, avant garde and cosmic jazz, krautrock and funk. Bruce Springsteen. The USA Is A Monster. Funkadelic. Manowar. Phish. Pharoah Sanders and Jimi Hendrix are my major heros. I like loooooong jams. I have Sleep's "Dopesmoker" stuck in my head. All of it.

Meat n' veg. Spicy things.

As for film, I mostly like Mad Max: Fury Road. I've seen it so many times: as porn, as politics, as sound art. Every time there's something new.

Bob's Burgers. Bob's Fucking Burgers. I love that show and that family. They don't shame each other. I wish everyone was like that.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
White male supremacy in the technical end of media presentation. Rock. Power change. Bodies. Guitar distortion and perfect amps.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Admiring my new underwear and pinching my fat rolls.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't know how to flirt and I'm very shy. But I'm easy.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are a drummer who can really play.

You freak out.

You are crazy but not particularly possessive.

You are sincere and try hard.

Fuck the police.