If this works, we will have lots of fun . I am not really thinking of fun activities (we will do those too). What I'm really talking about is enjoying being together --- finding it fun to converse and interact. The woman I wish to spend time with enjoys repartee and wordplay (perhaps even sarcasm). I wish to amuse and be amused (as well as have serious or deep discussions).I am looking for a meaningful connection where we support, understand, motivate and cheer on each other on our various pursuits. I am looking for someone who really does want to get inside my head a bit and who also wants to be really known.

Ideally you would also be someone who is independent and desires some alone time and who has outside interests and relationships that provide fulfillment. You probably do not get bored frequently

I consider myself basically a "nice guy" though I hope maybe a little more cool and creative. I am quite laid back, accepting, and am very good at not letting the small stuff get to me. I am endlessly curious and find more things fascinating than most folks do. I can find interest in most things people would talk to me about.

I am happy doing just about anything whether its outdoor activities, just wandering or people watching, or going to an a destination or event. There are not many places you could take me where I would be unhappy, aside from events involving lots of small talk.

I go to the gym four or so times weekly and have managed to make that into a habit. Sometimes I am really into competing with myself and sometimes it is just a great release, but overall, I find the gym rather dreary (and all too male) and could easily be convinced to share some outdoor exercise as an alternative to some of my workouts.

Still adjusting to having a private practice. Finding I finally have time to focus on meeting someone and wishing I were done with dating sites.

I am a great listener. I have been told many times I have "great hands". I also have an amazing ability to focus on things or tasks that interest me and have a sharp sense of humor. I notice connections between things that others may not. Being direct without offending. Getting worked up about oblivious drivers.

my eyes, my interest in what they have to say

(A) Catcher in the Rye, An Unfinished Life, Vonnegut, The Bone
People, The Corrections, What is the What, Water for Elephants (B) Body Heat, The BigChill, Forest Gump, Superbad (C) thai, sushi, baked stuffed shrimp, steak (D) Musical
tastes are extremely eclectic -- I love my Pandora. Most frequently played stations include Bootsey Collins, Parliament Funkadelic, Arturo Sandoval, Disco Biscuits, The White Stripes, The Raconteurs, Avenged Sevenfold, Black Mountain, Buena Vista Social Club, and some Rap (for the gym). At this point, my Pandora stations have spawned so many generations of babies, that I have no idea how to label what I am listening to, and know only that it spans many genres while offering music that has certain similar qualities that I consistently find compelling.

I love NPR and documentaries. I do not have a tv, but easily find myself engrossed when I am in front of one.

my family, regularly enjoying nature, books, my curiousity, "me" time, intelligent conversation

-the "big questions" brought up my work as a therapist

-how to create a side biz that will take small amount of effort (after set-up) and reap large rewards

-how the world has changed so much -- and how scary it is that I recall my grandparents saying this

-randomness- for example, why, on trash day, are there so many couches without cushions on the side of the road. Where did the cushions go? Were the owners so mean-spirited that they hid the cushions so that noone else could have their couch for free?

-Do my cats (2, not 75) just meow to me or do they meow to each other when I am not around. Is a meow cat language or is it cat to people language.

-When will I meet someone who wants to hear my musings?

- Why is it that when I see pics that appeal to me very strongly visually, there is usually some dealbreaker in the profile or questions. Why do I have to be so visual?

-Whether I will actually poke my eyes out the next time I see "live, laugh, love" in a profile.

completed mystified -- you will have to ask.

That I am entirely lukewarm about seeing what you look like in sunglasses. Is this supposed to be a disguise?

You are single, think of yourself as curious, are an animal lover, and want to meet a truly nice guy with a clever wit

You like the idea of going on random drives with camera in hand

You have guessed correctly, that I might need some encouragement to message you. My profile is pretty long, eh? I figure it would give those who read it a good sense of who I am. If you read this and the profile appeals to you, there is a good chance you will be my type (at least in values and qualities). I definately want someone who is excited by what they have read.

You understand that I if I do not respond, it is either a "timing thing" or I might not see any potential for chemistry. Something just does not feel right to me about a message which indicates "not my cup of tea".