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25 M Seattle, WA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 24
Asian, White
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of university
Art / Music / Writing
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Updating on boykundera, but don't... care enough... to finish...


Hi. My name is Max. I hail from the not-so-great state of Kansas, and I've traveled here trying to find myself slash learn how to do Things Adults Are Supposed To Do.

I spend my time poor and writing a novel, if that's any indication of how things have been working out.

+ Things That Make Me Happy:
writing, good books, learning math, learning physics, cosmology, philosophy, shaving, Mothertongue, late night walks, Red Bull, getting drunk with friends, intelligent conversation, silly conversation, well-placed sarcasm, new music, good sex, air conditioning, comedians, trees, petrichor, programming, poetry, H&M, playing music, singing, A.I., puppies, kittens, rain sounds, industrial architecture, the feeling of cold water from a faucet, cutting my fingernails, mouthwash, wordplay, old people who play Scrabble, chai tea, sea-green, dragons, busy city sounds, trains, fountains, sea smells, nice butts, libraries, bibliophiles, fresh fruit, talks by famous people, cleaning my ears with cotton swabs, waking up before the sun, airports, shopping malls, hoodies, abstract art, graph theory, modern classical music, being barefoot, brushing teeth, making lists

- Things That Make Me Sad:
dishonesty, conscious ignorance, stagnation, loneliness, limits

For those who care, I'm a Myers-Briggs INFP or INTP.

Enneagram Type 5 with a 4-wing, "The Iconoclast". (Take it. It's not stupid, I promise.
What I’m doing with my life
Writing. Trying to find sustainable happiness.
I’m really good at
Cello, chess, finding new music, being drunk-fun, being honest, analyzing stuff.
The first things people usually notice about me
Either that I'm dashing or that my social skills are almost entirely absent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
#music# (

Nico Muhly, Johann Sebastian Bach, Philip Glass, Ellie Goulding, John Adams, Aaron Copland, Mozart, Brahms, Sibelius, Ólafur Arnalds, Vivaldi, Grieg, Dvorak, Cassado, Rachmaninov, Stravinsky, Smetana, Ravel, Debussy, Gorecki, Judd Greenstein, Kanye West, Adele, Miguel, Aqualung, Bjork, Nujabes, Fat Jon, Fever Ray, Joanna Newsom, Jonsi, Missy Higgins, Rachael Yamagata, Regina Spektor, The Killers, The Knife, The Postal Service, Vienna Teng, Birdy, James Blake, I Blame Coco, Robyn, Mumford & Sons


Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon, Pan's Labyrinth, Requiem For A Dream, The Fountain, Little Miss Sunshine, Contact, Hot Fuzz, Spirited Away, The Reader, The Hours, Never Let Me Go, Howl's Moving Castle, The Lady


The God of Small Things, The History of Love, Notes from Underground, Siddhartha, The Unbearable Lightness of Being, The Book of Laughter and Forgetting, Ender's Game, Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close, 1984, Brave New World, Everything is Illuminated, The Stranger, Amrita
The six things I could never do without
1. growth
2. music
3. people who matter
4. motion
5. a space to my own
6. something to believe in
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What really matters in life and how to achieve it.
The best way to keep living.
What I'm living for.
How funny the word "pudding" is.
On a typical Friday night I am
Writing or procrastinating on writing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm an HSP based on some definition from some book by Dr. Elaine Aron, and I think my high neurological sensitivity has affected me—alienated me perhaps—much more than my being gay ever has.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 23–39
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You feel like it.