I'm skeptical of self-summaries. How do I really know how you would percieve me? I really only know what I'm trying to be. And I'm realistic enough to know that I don't always live up to my ideals. I think I can be surprising in good ways, though. I'm experienced in life - I don't mean sex, okay? I am kind and that's more important than most people act like. I think I'm brave . . . except when I'm afraid. Other than this paragraph I'm sometimes funny. Does this thing have a spell cheq?
I am warm, confused, and trustworthy
What I’m doing with my life
Uh right now I'm on OKcupid. I work. I'm divorced. I go to church. I have a dog. Exciting enough, sweetie?
I’m really good at
Wouldn't you rather find this out on your own? I like to think I'm a little more fun than a goofy OKcupid question and maybe not much more clumsy. I mean "I'm really good at"! How low have I sunk here?
The first things people usually notice about me
Honestly, I have to say I think absolutely nothing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Book - Life of Pi. Movie - American Beauty. Music - Okay I like classical music like Aaron Copeland and Ralph Vaughn Williams, and I know that's a turnoff. But I also like alternative/modern rock: Nirvana, Pearl Jam, Bush, Coldplay, Radiohead. Foods - I really like fresh veggies from the garden Southern style: greens, beans and cornbread, sliced tomatoes. But I really also love the adventure of new foods too.
The six things I could never do without
Again who can answer this?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I would like to say the human condition and sound profound, but I think in some of those questions I said I didn't lie or something like that. I do think about thinking sometimes. What is a thought really? Just electricity and chemicals forming a little circuit in a little piece of brain tissue in my skull? What does that mean then? What causes a thought to occur or not to occur? liberation theology
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably doing my laundry. But I wish I was out doing things more fun. They just don't seem too fun all by myself.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
It's not private, but I did want to include this somewhere. I'm politically liberal. I don't hate conservatives or anything, but if you hate liberals, I'd prefer you hate me from a distance. Up-close hating is definitely reserved for marriage in my book.
You should message me if
You would like a friendly conversation without mean competition. Oh crap that sounds some kind Lifetime-Oprah sort of thing. Well, hopefully you understand.