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37 Los Angeles, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:55pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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i'm not very good about going on and on about myself, so here are some miscellanea about me:

my eyes are sometimes green and sometimes blue.

i love people watching, especially with a nice glass of wine and some cheese.

i can curse in five languages.

kissing is one of my favorite forms of exercise.

i'm a sucker for good architecture. and pretty pictures.

i like nothing better on a sunday morning than to cuddle up in bed with the ny times and trash the wedding announcements.

i do not understand people who don't like spicy food.

my friends call me chew.

the secret to good living is good lighting.

I am smartish, wittiful, and pockety
What I’m doing with my life
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motion pictures. lighting design. photography. theatre. travel. making a really good bolognese.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
taking pictures
making lemon tarts
focusing lights
accumulating books
trivial pursuit and cards against humanity
dancing my heart out
tying knots and tying ties
watching sunsets
finding my way around cities i've never been to before
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: cultural studies, history, anthro, and art & design stuff. vanity fair, new yorker, the atlantic. sedaris (david and amy), morrison, vowell. some favorites are cloud atlas, naked, auntie mame, les miserables, the forgetting room, the hitchhiker's guide....

Movies: her, vicky christina barcelona, amelie, waiting for guffman, brazil, 8 femmes, all about eve, the women, showgirls, drop dead gorgeous, dangerous liasons, paris je t'aime, princess bride... (for starters)

TV Shows: strangers with candy, little britain, the daily show & colbert report, family guy, arrested development, weeds, 30 rock, c-span, glee, archer, modern family, project runway & top chef, downton abbey, jeopardy...

Music: i'm a big fan of rhythm and harmony, and sometimes even melody...everything from pop to rock to dance to folk to classical to opera and even a little country.

Food: there are few cuisines which i don't like, though i do have a special place in my heart for french, mexican, and indian food (duck confit enchilada in curry sauce, perhaps?)

And of course, NPR rocks my world.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to say 'another glass of wine, please' in languages other than english.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
either out at the theatre, an art opening, a friend's comedy show, or at home relaxing with some good food, good wine, and good friends
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I find pickles abhorrent.
You should message me if
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you like pina coladas, getting caught in the rain, and clichés.