I think people need to have at least one passion in their life. For me it's music. If I ever question why we're here, music gives me the answer. I love to listen to music, see live music and make music with friends/bandmates or alone.
I am definitely not looking to take things fast. I'd like to find someone with whom I have chemistry and good conversation and a few laughs and then let things happen. If you're in a rush to move in, get married or want kids, I'm not the guy for you. In fact, if you ever want (more) kids I'm not for you. I am divorced with joint custody of two little ones - 11 and 8 - so I'm done populating the earth. I'm a very devoted father and they are a huge part of my life, but I also make time for a separate adult life.