I don't treat dating like a numbers game, meaning I won't contact
you if I haven't thought this through and think we'll hit it off
(yes, I read your profile). Also, chances are you are not a
Republican, don't quote Ayn Rand out of context and don't take
yourself, or life, too seriously (this does not make you
irresponsible, however). Most importantly, you don't seem like the
kind of person who imposes their beliefs or agendas on
I think people need to have at least one passion in their life. For
me it's music. If I ever question why we're here, music gives me
the answer. I love to listen to music, see live music and make
music with friends/bandmates or alone.
I am definitely not looking to take things fast. I'd like to find
someone with whom I have chemistry and good conversation and a few
laughs and then let things happen. If you're in a rush to move in,
get married or want kids, I'm not the guy for you. In fact, if you
ever want (more) kids I'm not for you. I am divorced with joint
custody of two little ones - 11 and 8 - so I'm done populating the
earth. I'm a very devoted father and they are a huge part of my
life, but I also make time for a separate adult life.
What I’m doing with my life
Not achieving anything world-changing. Enjoying my career, kids,
friends, colleagues, and the little things I like:
- going to "adult" movies
- seeing live music
- playing tennis
- pondering my naval (alone)
- crossword puzzles
- wine and tapas
- playing guitar
I’m really good at
Nothing. Jack of a bunch of trades, master of none.
The first things people usually notice about me
That's all hearsay!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I've never considered dating a woman because she read Kitchen
Confidential - and I'm sure you feel the same, however, I like
non-fiction - mostly history. Movies make lousy dates - I prefer to
go alone. Unless you like to hold hands - that's fun at a movie. I
like dark comedies, action and the rare good slapsticky Apatow-type
movie. I don't go to plays much, but comedy/improv is fun. Music is
my thing, but I had a great relationship with a woman who couldn't
relate to music at all, so what does that say? And as far as food
goes, if you're reading this you're still alive, so I am sure you
eat. We'll find something in common.
The six things I could never do without
It's only four, but everything else is replaceable or superfluous.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why so many people think I need pills for erectile dysfunction and
keep emailing me about it.
On a typical Friday night I am
With my kids on Friday nights. I'll spare you the details.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
You should message me if
You looked at my profile and for some reason you're thinking we'd
hit it off. Not just because you think I'm hot ;)