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mcaj

50 / M / straight / Seeing someone

Brooklyn, New York

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Libra but it doesn’t matter
Education
masters program
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Languages
English

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I am occasionally sweet, sometimes silly, and sometimes not.

My Self-Summary

I’m a romantic — the kissing in the rain, poetry scribbling, yet slightly sarcastic type.

I believe in all sorts of alchemy.

Most of the time, I love my work.

I gobble up as many movies as possible: indies, elitist docs and hollywood trash.

I have a fourteen year old daughter; hanging out with her tends to make me a less self-absorbed person. Thank god.

I am still stunned, thrilled, and otherwise speechless about the results of our recent election.

Several times a week (work and life permitting) I visit the gym and am otherwise moderately active. (I'm 6.0 160 lbs)

I write. And I read. Carefully.

And if I’m with the right person, I like to kiss.

Not always so carefully.

(pix are current)

What I’m doing with my life

I like to manipulate images, stories and music during the day (aka: FILM EDITING). Various things when day is done. I continue to try to be in the moment as much as possible.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

recent good reads: The Inferno (the pinsky translation) You don't love Me yet (Lethem) dhalgren (delany) War and Peace (yeah, him) . . . the ballroom chatter was great.

those damned Aubrey/Maturin novels.

great reads! Emma (austen) The Crossing (mccarthy) The Long Goodbye (chandler) any alice munro story.

The six things I could never do without

A good destination. Several cups of coffee. A relaxing spot to drink it. A notebook. And pen. A muse.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

It would be ideal if you like to read, write, eat, and sleep . . . but would keep me awake on occasion. Hopefully you can share your hopes and despairs, face a mirror without fear, enjoy your own company . . . but more often, mine.

No preference in race, culture, or dress.

You should message me if

the urge is unavoidable.