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mcdoffer

37 M Warsaw, IN

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jul 5
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and very serious about it
Sign
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Banking / Finance
Income
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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Well, I haven't been on this site for a few years now.. so, I've updated my profile)

I've learned so much about myself in the last two years. Thinking about life and relationships NOT from a standpoint of what I can get out of it, but what I can give to others and contribute. That's not a line but something I have heartfully felt.

Honestly, two years ago I went through some hard times but came out of it stronger and made a re-commitment to my faith. I am not going to push or proselytize anything, but I know what looking for in a relationship, and it does include having God at the center of it. Just being upfront...
What I’m doing with my life
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Live and work in Warsaw at an orthopedic company as a financial analyst. I attended IU in the late 90s and lived in Bloomington for about 6 years after that, and just moved back to northern Indiana a couple years ago.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Work-wise... pretty much the spreadsheet/database guru at every workplace I've been. Have become a self-taught Access / SQL expert within my work group.

Not to say I'm *good* at either of them, but I golf in the summers, and play basketball the winters, though not as much as I used to.

For fitness, I run in the summer and try to do P90 in the winters, although my commitment seems to lag when the snow flies. I have become a fairly serious runner, although I'd like to get more serious. I keep increasing my goals; two years ago I ran my first 5K since high school, followed by a few more. This year in 2013, I ran my first half-marathon.
The first things people usually notice about me
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First Impression: Either that I'm a nice guy, or if I'm having a bad day, that I come off as stuck-up or condescending. However, that reaction is usually because I'm too self-conscious to just open up.

Second and third impression is almost always that I'm a nice, intelligent guy -- the type of guy who holds doors open for people.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: most Stephen King, LOTR, 'Season on the Brink' by John Feinstein, 'Guns, Germs, and Steel' by Jared Diamond (an economic/societal study), 'South of the Big Four' by Don Kurtz (a must-read for any native of the Hoosier state), some histories and alt histories

This summer's reading material is a mix of some alt history... "Fox on the Rhine" and "Fox at the Front" (WWII alt history), and a few golf books ("Spirit of St Andrews" and "The Anatomy of a Golf Course: The Art of Golf Architecture").

Music:
In general, 80s, 90s alternative, particular artists - Mellencamp, Springsteen, the Eagles, Cake

Food: spicy foods, ribs, pizza, Mexican

Movies: I see that I somehow removed the movie section at some point. Some of my faves are Gladiator, Hoosiers, Tin Cup, Office Space, Idiocracy, and recently Tron Legacy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
computer, golf, long weekends (and long golf weekends), a good book, and the two obligatory responses -- money and food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
goals which I am actively pursuing; goals which I should be pursuing but just can't motivate myself to take the first step.

I also think quite a bit about choices I've made thus far in my life, and how much the early choices (and the choices I chose not to make) have affected me for better or worse.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
cooking (or die trying) a good meal or ordering takeout, finding a good movie. Maybe going for a late evening run or walk while the sun sets at a secluded city park. If it's a Friday in the summertime, probably trying to get in a quick nine holes of golf.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Relationships have taught me that communication and honesty are crucial. Without these qualities from the start, a relationship is bound to fail. I think it is healthy to talk about long-range goals. With all that said, I understand it takes time to build a relationship.

Also, as I said above, I am a Christian, and I would like to pursue someone with a similar background. It would be nice to be able to have a partner who can talk about the difference God has made in their life.

OK, now for some completely trivial details:
* I was the 1992 Indiana State Geography Bee champion (yes, such a thing exists). It's like a Spelling Bee for people who never get lost and can't spell.

* In the 2010 and again in 2011, I tore my ACL in my right knee. Long rehabs are no fun.
You should message me if
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if you're a golfer or runner (or ever wanted to try)..
if you like quiet conversation
if you are a Christian