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  • Ages 27-40
  • Near me
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Last online
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5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Catholicism but it’s not important
Post grad
Might want kids
My self-summary
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Profile facelift - this should give you a pretty good idea of who I am and where I'm going in the new year.

2015 To Do/Goals/Resolutions/Words-to-live-by:

1. Take a specialty/regional cooking class. Use these newfound skills to lay off the takeout.
2. Become a better photographer. Take more photos.
3. Write longhand more frequently.
4. Watch less TV; read more; get away from fiction and read more non-fiction.
5. Pass both the salt and pepper, even if only asked for one.
6. Never leave anyone hanging on a high-five.
7. Go to Storm King and the Donald M. Kendall sculpture gardens.
8. Drink more water; take vitamins and omega-3 pills.
9. De-glue from the iPhone; don't be a slave to the noise; notice your surroundings; look up every once in a while.
10. Go see more live shows/concerts but don't pay over $30 for a ticket; Go to all the little/off-the-beaten-track museums in NYC.
11. Stroll around Fort Tryon park.
12. Never run for another plane again. It's impossible to ever look cool while doing so.
13. Work on a cool art project.
14. Play more basketball.
15. See more movies. Foreigns and classics. Documentaries. Stop supporting stupid movies by giving them money at the box office.
16. Start listening to your peers (and start by finally watching The Wire and Breaking Bad).
17. Don’t take life for granted. Enjoy the simple things in life. Like your good friends. And afternoon naps. And a killer jukebox. And unearthing a great book.
18. Take a phenomenal trip somewhere (Iceland/Argentina/Turkey/Croatia). With someone. Unplugged. With a Hemingway novel.
19. Never shake anyone's hand sitting down.
20. Take a mixology course; learn more about scotch, whiskey and rye.
21. Realize that if a street performer makes me stop walking, I owe him/her a buck.
22. Ski really hard one long weekend (if it ever snows).
23. Don't respond to anything angrily without taking a few pondering steps back first.
24. Kiss my next girlfriend.
25. Not kiss anyone else.

I listen to a lot of rock and indie, and I love going to see live shows. If you have laughed at Scrubs or a Wes Anderson movie, then we probably have similar senses of humor. Hopefully you like to ski/board. But if not, you think it'd be fun to give it a whirl. I love art museums, and can spend all day in one. I love mid-century modern furniture, and am starting to build up a collection of vintage pieces. I love my Mac, and recently converted my Mom. I always put the toilet seat down. I habitually get lost in Ikea's.

I'm not the pickiest person in the world, but I know what I like, and I am sure that you know what you like. Now it's your turn (yep, I know the difference between "your" and "you're," and "two," "too" and "to," too!)...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm in-house counsel for a media and entertainment company. I spend my days busting counterfeiters -- good stuff. Much better than law firm life. Only problem is, even though I have a J.D., nobody calls me "doctor."
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making gin and tonics, drinking gin and tonics, participating in pizza grilling contests, playing jarts (quite possibly the most dangerous game [sport?] in the world), and...abusing ellipses...
The first things people usually notice about me
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Dunno. You tell me...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Native Son, Franny and Zooey, Strangers on a Train. Just finished Bret Easton Ellis' Imperial Bedrooms and Gone Girl. Do you have any suggestions?
Movies: Raiders of the Lost Ark, Bottle Rocket, Fletch
Music: The Strokes, Radiohead, Richard Ashcroft, Van Morrison, KISS, New York Dolls (I can do this all day...). Got a recent thing for Naked Raygun, Folly and the Hunter, Tame Impala and Phosphorescent...
Food: I'm an omnivore, but I have a particular love of seafood...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Vintage t-shirts, a good crime/mystery novel, John C. McGinley, Wes Anderson flicks, espresso, Rothko.

Dislikes? I hate pleats.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Building a modern house with reclaimed materials. Wondering if/when a sentient computer will take my job.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sucking the marrow out of life...Well, either that, or on the couch watching the Netflix out of life...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't mind ironing. It's therapeutic...
You should message me if
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Any of what I've said above intrigues you in even the most slightest bit. That said, I'm much better in person...