I'd like others to be the judge... (stock phrase 2).
This is so stupid, but OK... (stock phrase 3).
I am more aware of stock phrases, cliche things and details in general than I'd wish to be. However I'm not judgmental about it - I'm not pointing them out to you like a dick. I am honest. I am shallow in terms of looks. See, I'm honest?! However nothing beats great chemistry. I'm a happy, optimistic and philanthropic guy - and a cynic at the same time. If these things sound somewhat contradictory to you, welcome to my world: in dealing with women I have to be able to handle a lot of contradiction. So why wouldn't you be able to?