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My self-summary
Well I'd first like to say I hate writing these things because they really don't say much about people. Anyone can write what they want to make themselves look good. Anyway, my name is Tony. I'm looking for someone special. I am a firm believer that who ever I am with should also be my bestfriend so to say that I'm looking for a friend as well is a safe statement. I am the type of person that says what I mean and means what I say. I don't make promises I don't intend to keep. If I don't keep a promise there is a VERY good reason for it.

I'm generally pretty shy, but I'm starting to get over that pretty fast. I'm usually a really nice person, kinda sarcastic from time to time, but usually it is kinda funny. I have found some people lately who have been telling me that I'm really funny.

I am really bad with first impressions I suppose. I guess not only am I shy at first but I'm also a bit awkward.

Now here is a section for those of you women who have children and are interested. I don't mind that you have children and a career it doesn't bother me at all. Actually i give you kudos, but, if you would like to date me i kinda need to be a priority. Now before you go getting all mad i'm not talking #1 priority here. All i'm asking for is maybe top 5. Actually i guess that priority part is for any woman who would like to date me. I've just come to see women with children tend to put me down on their priority list below EVERYTHING else in their life.
If you have any questions, feel free to ask.

I am relaxed, patient, and ready for life.
What I’m doing with my life
Right now I'm working a lot. I am an automotive technician. More or less I work on vehicles and fix them. I work 10 hours a day 5 days a week and every other Saturday.
I’m really good at
Listening to people and understanding their problems. I try my best to give people good advice, but that is all it is. I don't ever expect people to do as I say. I just like to get people to think about what they are doing before they do something stupid.
I'm also pretty good at looking like and idiot. I try not to look like an idiot but there are times when i just can't help it. The worst part about it is that i find it pretty funny myself when i do it.

I also like to think i'm pretty good at giving massages. I don't know for sure but i used to have people begging me to give them a massage. I do enjoy it but maybe one day someone can tell me for sure if i'm good or not :)
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm not really sure what the first thing is that people notice about me. People aren't generally telling me what they first notice about me. Due to the fact I'm pretty shy i'm usually hiding in the back ground bideing my time until i'm comfortable enough.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like to read fantasy books because they can really let your mind wander and have fun. It is a release from reality if even for just a short time. Currently I"m reading some of the Dragon Lance books. Pretty fun.

My favorite movie is The Last Samurai but i like to watch all sorts of movies. I tend to lean more toward Action or Comedy but what do you expect from me.

I don't really have a favorite type of music . I listen to just about everything. I'm not picky when it comes to music.

My favorite food is kinda hard. I am a very picky eater. My soon to be sister in law is learning this and not very happy about it. oops. I guess i'd just have to stick with the usual Steak and potatoes. That is usually a safe way to go.
The six things I could never do without
1. close friends
2. family
3. books
4. someone special (which I have yet to find)
6. water
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The future. Where things are going. How I can get there. If anyone is going to be there with me on my way. All sorts of things. Why women would rather be with a guy who is a jerk rather than a nice guy who will treat them right and not like a piece of meat.
On a typical Friday night I am
Right now I sit at home a lot due to the fact that I don't know many people in the area. Hey if you would like to take me out and show me some fun things to do that that would be great.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am not like most guys. I'm that guy that women claim to want but when the opportunity comes around I am the guy that they are to afraid to have because as I've been told, I am "Too good to be true." I just want a woman who wants what she deserves and isn't to scared to take it.

I guess another important thing to mention is that I am completely terrified of heights. I can handle a ladder or roof but don't ask me to get on a plane. The thought of it just makes my stomach churn with fear. Sorry if being able to fly is important to you. I just can't do it.
You should message me if
If the need arises, but just keep in mind that I'm shy. I've kind of decided that I'm tired of writing to people who never write back or aren't interested; so if you look at my profile and would like to write me chances are very high that I'll at least write you back. I won't start the conversation because i'm tired of not getting responses. I'm sorry if you think that is just stupid or mean, but it is kinda crappy to write to people and never hear back. It takes a lot for me to talk with people being I'm a shy person but I'm only shy until you get to know me and i feel comfortable. I don't like to be that creepy guy who goes to far to fast and by the way if you've made it this far you should really message me because apparently there is some sort of intrest right?