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40 Tucson, AZ Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 25
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 3" (1.60m)
Body Type
A little extra
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am not on this site for hookups or cyber sex. Move on if that is why you are here. I am looking for a relationship, to actually develop something meaningful.

That said, here's info about me:
I enjoy spending time with others but need downtime alone. I expend a lot of energy to be social whether for a night out dancing,playing games, or watching movies with friends. I can be very talkative but it takes time for me to open up enough to share myself. I do not trust people easily and it is even harder for my trust to be rebuilt once broken. Analyzing other people's actions and inactions as they relate to what I am doing or trying to do tends to affect me more than I should allow.

I am looking for someone I can trust and believe in. Someone who has similar interests and takes pleasure in a variety of activities. Someone who enjoys being out socializing with friends, camping on clear starry nights, and cuddling at home watching movies. I am worth the effort to know and love, and I expect someone who is also worth the effort I am willing to put forth.

For many hobbies, I am involved with the Society of Creative Anachronism. I am loving it! Medieval life, arts, crafts, fighting, and more are at my disposal. I also enjoy RPG and tabletop games. I enjoy physical activity but am not athletic. I don't own a bicycle and I rarely go hiking.

Dating is an adventure and I have been in monogamous relationships with both women and men - they are equally confusing.

I thought about this for several months but feel strongly that it needs to be said:
While my head and heart know size should not be a big deal, I find I am generally attracted to people who carry their weight well. Being 50 or so pounds overweight can still be extremely attractive to me. In contrast, I have yet to be physically attracted to a man or woman who was 200 or more pounds overweight and I am rarely attracted to people who are gaunt in appearance.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I teach high school English.
I have a senior cat that requires a little extra care and attention. This means I can't just go away without planning for someone to watch him. Yes, he is like my child - a pet is a lifetime commitment.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I teach. What's your superpower?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Depending on the day, my long hair or my smile.
I look like a teacher, a librarian, or someone very religious. It depends on the individual judging.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I read a lot of fantasy and also enjoy contemporary supernatural tales when I'm not reading about hobby topics.

I enjoy a range of movies from action (Die Hard) to teen (Harry Potter). I only have difficulty with gore and any horror that I can imagine happening in real life.

Television: Grimm, Two Broke Girls, Person of Interest, and Scorpion. I only get local channels through my antenna so I generally watch on Netflix.

Soft rock, classic rock, and folk music are my go-to choices.

I love chocolate, pizza, and spaghetti but I have been trying to remove gluten from my diet. Mexican food and jalapenos are a requirement in life!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Books
2. Cats
3. Friends
4. Blankets
5. Chocolate
6. Lists
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to improve by making my life and world more effective, efficient, peaceful, and secure.

How to help my students succeed and my friends be happy.

Love and cuddling.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing whatever I feel like doing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If you ask me, I will usually answer so be certain you really want to know.
I do not trust you; even if you think I do, I don't.
You should message me if
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You think we could enjoy spending time together out and about since we share interests. If you are interested in creating something real.