Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am not on this site for hookups or cyber sex. Move on if that is
why you are here. I've been very busy lately with work so I haven't
been here much. Please send a message if you would like to get to
That said, here's info about me:
I enjoy spending time with others but need downtime alone. The week
is spent with teaching teens with their energy, crises, and
learning, so afterwards, I expend a lot of energy to be social
whether for a night out dancing,playing games, or watching movies
with friends. I can be very talkative but it takes time for me to
open up enough to share myself. I do not trust people easily and it
is even harder for my trust to be rebuilt once broken. Analyzing
other people's actions and inactions as they relate to what I am
doing or trying to do tends to affect me more than I should
I am looking for a relationship - not a hookup. I am looking to
actually develop something meaningful. I truly miss the process of
dating and building attraction.
I am looking for someone I can trust and believe in. Someone who
has similar interests and takes pleasure in a variety of
activities. Someone who enjoys being out socializing with friends,
camping on clear starry nights, and cuddling at home watching
movies. If I am worth the effort to know and love, I expect someone
who is also worth the effort I am willing to put forth.
For many hobbies, I am involved with the Society of Creative
Anachronism. I am loving it! Medieval life, arts, crafts, fighting,
and more are at my disposal. I also enjoy RPG and tabletop games so
I can be found at a local game store having fun too.
Dating is an adventure and I have been in monogamous relationships
with both women and men - they are equally confusing. Monogamy is
my preference so gender is not what I worry about first when
dating; it is attraction.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I teach high school English.
I have a senior cat that requires a little extra care and
attention. This means I can't just go away without planning for
someone to watch him. Yes, he is like my child - a pet is a
As mentioned before, I spend some free time in SCA activities
(crafts and socializing). When I can, I also participate in camping
I also enjoy going to movies and concerts though I have been to
relatively few concerts.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I teach. What's your superpower?
The first things people usually notice about me
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Depending on the day, I either hear about my long hair or my
I look like a teacher, a librarian, or someone very religious. It
depends on the individual judging.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favorite plot is the Cinderella plot so I love Jane Eyre. I read
a lot of fantasy and also enjoy contemporary supernatural tales.
Authors like Jacqueline Carey, Jean Auel, and Kim Harrison are fun
reads. I also love the worlds created by George R. R. Martin's
I love musicals on both stage and screen. Additionally, I enjoy a
range of movies from action (Die Hard) to teen (Harry Potter). I
only have difficulty with gore and any horror that I can imagine
happening in real life.
Recent favorites on television: Grimm, Two Broke Girls, Person of
Interest, Longmire, and Lost Girl. I only get local channels
through my antenna so I generally watch on Netflix.
Soft rock, classic rock, and folk music are my go-to's whether on
the radio or Pandora. I mostly listen for enjoyment and don't
concern myself with the details of who or what.
My weaknesses are chocolate, pizza, and spaghetti but I have been
trying to remove gluten from my diet. I love Mexican food, and
jalapenos are a requirement in life!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to improve my life. I am constantly looking to make tweaks and
changes that make my life and world more effective, efficient,
peaceful, and secure.
How to help my students succeed and my friends be happy.
Love and cuddling.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing whatever I feel like doing. Sometimes that is dancing,
watching a movie, or playing games with friends. Other times it is
staying home to watch TV and sleep.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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If you ask me, I will usually answer - in forthright honesty - so
be certain you really want to know.
I do not trust you; even if you think I do, I don't.
You should message me if
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You think we could enjoy spending time together out and about since
we share interests. If you are interested in creating something
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