I have very long hair which is becoming more white every year and I like it that way. I am considering adding more red but haven't yet. That said, here's info about me:
I enjoy spending time with others but need downtime alone. The week is spent with teaching teens with their energy, crises, and learning, so afterwards, I expend a lot of energy to be social whether for a night out dancing,playing games, or watching movies with friends. I can be very talkative but it takes time for me to open up enough to share myself. I do not trust people easily and it is even harder for my trust to be rebuilt once broken. Analyzing other people's actions and inactions as they relate to what I am doing or trying to do tends to affect me more than I should allow.
I am looking for a relationship - not a hookup. I am looking to actually develop something meaningful. I truly miss the process of dating and building attraction. Much of what happens today feels so rushed and superficial. What has happened to the thrill of holding hands for the first time?
I am looking for someone I can trust and believe in. Someone who has similar interests and takes pleasure in a variety of activities. Someone who enjoys being out socializing with friends, camping on clear starry nights, and cuddling at home watching movies. If I am worth the effort to know and love, I expect someone who is also worth the effort I am willing to put forth.
For many hobbies, I am involved with the Society of Creative Anachronism. I am loving it! Medieval life, arts, crafts, fighting, and more are at my disposal. Many of the people I currently spend time with are in the SCA. That said, I also enjoy RPG and tabletop games so I can be found at a local game store having fun too.
I enjoy learning about cultures and spiritual beliefs. I know energy flows through everything and can affect/be affected by us. I believe the human will is stronger than we know or understand.
Dating is an adventure and I have been in monogamous relationships with both women and men - they are equally confusing. Monogamy is my preference so gender is not what I worry about first when dating; it is attraction. I ask questions and share quite a bit when I feel comfortable and safe with a person.