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41 Tucson, AZ Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 35-48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 17
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 3" (1.60m)
Body Type
A little extra
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am not on this site for hookups or cyber sex. Move on if that is why you are here. I am looking for a relationship, to actually develop something meaningful.

I enjoy spending time with others but need downtime alone. I expend a lot of energy to be social whether for a night out dancing, playing games, going to a SCA tournament, or watching movies with friends. Going to shows and events is also a lot of fun. I do not trust people easily and it is even harder for my trust to be rebuilt once broken.

I am looking for someone I can trust and believe in. Someone who has similar interests and takes pleasure in a variety of activities. Someone who will encourage me to go out and try new things and will try out what I enjoy too. I am worth the effort to know and love, and I expect someone who is also worth the effort I am willing to put forth.

For many hobbies, I am involved with the Society of Creative Anachronism (SCA). I am loving it! Medieval life, arts, crafts, fighting, and more are at my disposal. I also enjoy RPG and tabletop games. I enjoy physical activity but am not athletic. Dancing is fun; I can do a passable two-step but my industrial dance moves are lacking some punch. I don't own a bicycle and I rarely go hiking. I enjoy bicycling and hiking but without proper equipment and the right people along, I simply pass on both.

Dating is an adventure and I have been in monogamous relationships with both women and men - they are equally confusing.

I thought about this for several months but feel strongly that it needs to be said:
While my head and heart know size should not be a big deal, I find I am generally attracted to people who carry their weight well. Being 50 or so pounds overweight can still be extremely attractive to me. I keep this in mind when someone is not attracted to me physically; everybody has different preferences and I'm am neither a very fit person nor a very curvy person.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I teach high school English.
I have a senior cat that requires a little extra care and attention. This means I can't just go away without planning. Yes, he is like my child - a pet is a lifetime commitment.
I took in a roommate this summer so I have been adjusting to sharing my space. It is very different than living with a partner.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I teach. What's your superpower?
Others will say I am organized and a problem solver. They might mention I have a calming influence in stressful situations.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Depending on the day, my long hair or my smile.
I look like a teacher, a librarian, or someone very religious. Teens have described me as hippy. It depends on the individual judging.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I read a lot of fantasy and also enjoy contemporary supernatural tales when I'm not reading about hobby topics.

I enjoy a range of movies from action (Die Hard) to teen (Harry Potter). I only have difficulty with gore and any horror that I can imagine happening in real life.

Television: Grimm, Person of Interest, and Scorpion, Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D. I only get local channels through my antenna so I generally watch on Netflix.

Soft rock, classic rock, and folk music are my go-to choices.

I love chocolate, pizza, and spaghetti but I have been trying to remove gluten from my diet. This is not an easy endeavor. Mexican food and jalapenos are a requirement in life!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Books
2. Cuddles with a pet or person
3. Friends
4. Blankets
5. Chocolate
6. Lists
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to improve by making my life and world more effective, efficient, peaceful, and secure.

How to help my students succeed and my friends be happy.

My beautiful baby nephew.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing whatever I feel like doing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If you ask me, I will usually answer so be certain you really want to know.
I do not trust you; even if you think I do, I don't.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You think we could enjoy spending time together out and about since we share interests. If you are interested in creating something real.