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me_cave_man

33 / M / straight / Single

San Francisco, California

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Looking For
Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra but it doesn’t matter
Education
Job
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Languages
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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I am creative, curious, and concupiscent.

My Self-Summary

Unconventional, yet effective.
Sometimes I'm quiet, sometimes I'm bold. I have extremely diverse interests. I find beauty in the unexpected details. I'm opinionated but always willing to revise my opinions if I learn something new.

Some things about me:
- I like to make food, music, furniture, giant steel sculptures, and little mechanical gizmos.

- I grew up in an isolated but beautiful place, with not much money, no TV, and lots of books.

- My bicycle is my preferred vehicle.

- I've gone around the world, just me and a pack.

- I can open a coconut with a pocket knife.

- I lived in New York City for seven years.

- I love learning.

Some things I believe:
- Science is excellent.

- Art is lovely.

- "banana" is a good word.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm a computer programmer working at a charitable non-profit. I'm also doing some electromechanical design and construction on a big art project. Sometimes I sit in the living room and play guitar.

I’m really good at

Well, I once won a pie-making contest. I like to cook. I'm pretty good at learning stuff, and I can make just about anything. My David Bowie karaoke is unstoppable.

There are quite a few things I can do that make me a good guy to have around in the event of unexpected time travel or zombies. I can navigate by the sun and stars, stay calm in an emergency, and treat many injuries. I've foraged for food and water in the wilderness, camped comfortably in the wintertime without a tent, started fires without matches, used a machete, scaled a cliff, improvised tools, and evaded pursuit. Fortunately I don't have to do any of those things very often, but I like knowing that I can.

The first things people usually notice about me

Sideburns? Big blue eyes? Dimples? Unusual points of view? Not like the other boys?

The six things I could never do without

Mind, body, a world to explore, and people to share it with. Six eh? Maybe food and music.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

sex, adventure, safety, beauty, fun, good food, engineering challenges, the news, history, family

On a typical Friday night I am

Sometimes at the shop making big industrial art, sometimes cooking and watching a movie, sometimes out at a bar with friends, sometimes at home with a book.