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38 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 29–39
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Jan 16
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm happy, nerdy, adventurous, and loving. I love art and science. I use my nerd powers for social justice, in the software engineering department of a really interesting non-profit. I make all kinds of things: giant sculptures that shoot fire, unusual furniture, food, music, electronic things, mechanical art, costumes, and more. I like to hear about all kinds of creative endeavors, the human experience, what you're reading, and what you believe in.

I dig bicycles, playing music, cooking, making things, board games, learning, hiking to the swimming hole, camping in the mountains, picnics in the park, making art, and making out.

Sometimes I'm quiet, sometimes I'm bold. I have extremely diverse interests. I find beauty in the unexpected details.

I grew up in an isolated but beautiful place, with no TV and lots of books.

I've gone around the world, just me and a pack.

I'm from the northeast. I've traveled enough to have scattered little bits of my heart in assorted far-flung corners of the world. I've been San Franciscan for about seven years now.

I have a kind and respectful nature. I also have a kinky side.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a computer programmer working at a charitable non-profit. I've done some electromechanical design and construction on big art projects. Sometimes I sit in the living room and play guitar.
Last year I spent some time in Sierra Leone, working with organizations that help create new opportunities for people with limited means.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Once I won a pie-making contest. I like to cook.

I'm pretty good at learning stuff, I love to work with my hands, and I can make just about anything. I'm considered rather adept with knots and rope.

My David Bowie karaoke is unstoppable.

I'm a great guy to have around in the event of unexpected time travel or zombies. I can navigate by the sun and stars, stay calm in an emergency, and treat many injuries. I've foraged for food and water in the wilderness, camped comfortably in the wintertime without a tent, started fires without matches, scaled cliffs, improvised tools, and evaded pursuit. I don't have to do any of those things very often, but I like knowing that I can.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Oh, where to start...
I have eclectic musical tastes, both in what I listen to and what I play. I'll enjoy rock and roll, old jazz, funk, breakbeat for dancing, Prince, Nina Simone,Tom Waits, David Bowie, Ella Fitzgerald, and much more.

Some writers I like:
Haruki Murakami, Jorge Luis Borges, William Gibson, Holly Black, Connie Willis, William Fucking Shakespeare, Theodore Sturgeon, Cory Doctorow, innumerable sci-fi and fantasy writers, Gore Vidal, Dorothy Parker, Edgar Allen Poe, H.P. Lovecraft, J.R.R Tolkien, Howard Zinn, Bill Bryson, Richard Feynman, Joan Aiken

Movies... hmm, wonder if I can think of at least one great movie for every letter of the alphabet:
Amelie, The Apartment, Before Sunrise, Blade Runner, Castle in the Sky, City of God, City of Lost Children, A Clockwork Orange, Coffee and Cigarettes, Donnie Darko, Drunken Master, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Fargo, Fight Club, Gadjo Dilo, Gattaca, Harold and Maude, An Inconvenient Truth, Ink, Juno, Kill Bill, Killing Zoe, Labyrinth, Lawrence of Arabia, The Matrix, Nausicaa of the Valley of the Wind, O Brother Where Art Thou, Pan's Labyrinth, Rear Window (Hitchcock's), The Road Warrior, Secretary, Serenity, The Shining , Shaun of the Dead, The Thing, Trainspotting, Unforgiven, V for Vendetta, Whale Rider, Young Frankenstein, ZatoIchi
I can't think of any great movies starting with X or Q, can you?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Mind, body, a world to explore, and people to share it with. Six eh? Maybe food and music.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
adventure, beauty, fun, good food, gender politics, justice, engineering challenges, the news, history, family, the universe
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At the shop making art, working out at the Circus Center, cooking, out at a bar or a show with friends, or at home with a book.
You should message me if
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Just go ahead and message me. I like hearing from people. If you're not sure what to write, tell me about an interesting experience you've had, or would like to have.