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39 Gainesville, FL Cis Man

Cis Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28-48
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 20
Asian, White
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 10" (1.78m)
Not at all
Atheism but it’s not important
Working on University
Might want kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Fundamentally, I'm a geek. My geekdom is focused on science, spiritual scientific skepticism, science fiction, and gaming (of the tabletop variety). I value honesty and use it as a watch-word in my life. I'm a sensual person and tend to open up to people pretty easily. I like to think that I'm intelligent and others seem to think so too. My mind tends to bounce around from subject to subject quite rapidly. I never quite know where it'll end up, but I can usually explain how I got there.

I'm GGG, and if you know what that means, then definitely message me. On the Meyers-Briggs scale, I'm an INTJ. I think that the Meyers-Briggs description fits me very well. Of course, people say the same thing about astrological signs.

I'm polyamorous and while I have two lovely women in my life, each of them lives over a four hour drive away. Thus, I find myself looking for closer people to be close to.

I miss OKCupid's old "choose three adjectives to describe yourself" thing, so I kept mine: I am straightforward, loquacious, and perspicacious.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm working and getting by here in the town that has become my home. I tend to spend the weekends socializing and relaxing. My weekdays are when I work.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Talking, listening, problem solving, asserting myself, honesty.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My verbiage. I can talk a lot. I'm getting much better about it as time goes on, but I can still dominate a conversation if I'm not careful.

Maybe that or the shiny head. Hard to tell, actually.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Stories of Your Life by Ted Chiang, Cryptonomicon & Anathem by Neal Stephenson, the Laundry series by Charles Stross, The Company series & the Anvil of the World by Kage Baker, the Mars Trilogy by Kim Stanley Robinson, most of Cory Doctorow's work, & Island in the Sea of Time series by S.M. Stirling.

Webcomics: Girl Genius, Order of the Stick, Sinfest, XKCD, Oh Joy Sex Toy.

Movies: Hedwig & the Angry Inch, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Secretary, Serenity, Stranger Than Fiction.

TV: Agents of SHIELD, Doctor Who, Sherlock.

Music: They Might Be Giants, Jonathan Coulton, Ella Fitzgerald.

Foods: Asian, Sushi, Strawberry Milkshakes, anything homemade.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Intelligence, Friends, Literature, Touch, Conversation, Confidence.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
All the myriad ways that the world can change and be changed. How I'm going to go about getting things done. Problem solving.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm either hanging out with my friends or gaming with them. When things are going well, I've sometimes found myself in the company of a lovely woman.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That would be an unanswered part of the "I spend a lot of time thinking about:" section. You'll have to get to know me very, very well for me to tell you the details.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You find me intriguing so far and would like to know more. I'm fun and flirty and you may even find me to be witty. If such things interest you, let me know.

You should definitely message me if you're a fan of any of my above-listed science fiction authors, or you are a fan of Dan Savage. His advice has informed much of my perspective on relationships and the like.