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47 Portland, OR Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 2
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
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Newly single after an 18 year relationship. Wow.
What I’m doing with my life
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Parenting, creating, teaching, making, running, laughing, touching, smiling, listening, loving, digging, planting, singing, dancing, giving, cooking, tasting, caring, empathizing, thinking, feeling, breathing, touching, seeing, striving, and many more "ings" in random order!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being openminded, non-judgmental, accepting, being happy and excited about the little things, talking about anything and everything, laughing, my creative endeavors.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Hmmm....I suppose a number of folks have mentioned my eyes and other have noticed that I laugh a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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here is some of what i have listened to in the past month...Stephen Malkmus, Joni Mitchell, suzanne vega, chris thile, neil young, wilco, beatles, jack white, pavement, nick drake, dylan, pj harvey, bill frisell, tribe called quest, ages and ages, head and the heart, rory gallagher, wayne horvitz, jeff buckley, unknown mortal orchestra ll, charlotte gainsbourg, altan, broken bells and the shins. i love discovering new and beautiful sounds but tend to listen to my faves over and over!

gotta have me some indian food at least every couple of weeks, spaghetti with a simple homemade tomato sauce and fresh parm...omg!, a yummy cup of coffee first thing in the morning, fresh fruits and veggies, homemade apple pie ala mode.

my favorite genre is probably a well done sci-fi. love the star trek movies, battlestar galactica, alien, close encounters, planet of the apes, blade runner. Fave movies of late...only lovers left alive, boyhood. other movies/shows that stand out in my mind at this moment...deer hunter was one of the first movies I remember being blown away by, Louie is hilarious. To kill a mockingbird, hitchcock. i love flicks from the 1970's like marathon man, logan's run, the candidate, jaws. i love bbc adaptations of classic of my most favorite films ever is "persuasion"...the one starring amanda is perfection! so beautiful!

books? i don't read as much as i should or would like to...lately it's been mostly poetry and progressive news sites such as commondreams. if you like this poem a lot we might get along just fine...

The Love Cook
Let me cook you some dinner.
Sit down and take off your shoes
and socks and in fact the rest
of your clothes, have a daquiri,
turn on some music and dance
around the house, inside and out,
it’s night and the neighbors
are sleeping, those dolts, and
the stars are shining bright,
and I’ve got the burners lit
for you, you hungry thing.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my wee ones and the rest of my family and friends
creating, imagining, daydreaming
listening to music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what's for dinner, my little people, what the future holds for our planet and it's people, the nature of intimate relationships and my desire for a deep, soulful, sexy connection with an awesome man, lots more sexy stuff, what I am making or want to make next, what I want this next chapter (the chapter after my 16 year marriage) of my life to look like.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
cooking up a yummy meal, music playing, beer in hand. movie in bed night with me wee ones, a night out with a friend or two, some live music or a movie, and now that I am here, going out on a date? With you?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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if we hit it off, i will be telling you lots of private things in addition to all of the private things i already wrote of here:)
You should message me if
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you feel inspired to do so and especially if you are a positive minded, adventurous soul.