I'm going to start by telling you things I hate in a man so if you exhibit any of these qualities, you don't have to read any further. (Unless your mad about me hating on your habits then keep reading so you can laugh at my horrible date stories, it may make you feel better...) PLease keep in mind that if you do any of this stuff, don't despair, I am just one(rather opinionated) girl. I am sure there are plenty of lovely ladies out there who aren't as picky as me and don't mind any of these things. :)
Here are some things I hate in a man:
-The wearing of Skinny Jeans ( I moved to Cali from Boston recently and was introduced to the Hipster movement) There is nothing more horrifying to me than a hipster, particularly a man in skin tight skinny Jeans. I'm sorry its just not right. I will admit I'm not a medical professional but squeezing your balls up in those things just cant be good for the boys. And I cant imagine it being comfortable. And it really does just look awful, I promise you'll regret it in a couple of years. And you can say to yourself, "why didn't I listen to that random chick on Cupid" So If you don't think I'm worth throwing out the junkhuggers, move along...I will allow a slight hint of hipster in my men. Maybe the hair cut as out of context its not terrible.
-Guys who take themselves really seriously. Well anyone who takes themselves really seriously actually. Lighten up.
-Despite my user name(I made it in middle school, and can't remember why...) and my east coast origins. I am not into the whole Jersey Shore life & style. So if you own an Ed Hardy shirt, you're a tool and I'm not interested.
- Poor Communicators. I can't deal with a lack of communication. I grew up in an Italian-American Family, where we talk/argue about everything, and I need that openness in a relationship. It's one thing to be shy its another to not be able to tell me how you're feeling, it drives me nuts.
-When I'm driving home from somewhere late, whether it be your place or somewhere else, and you know this and don't text to make sure I got home ok. You're not my kind of guy.
I'll fill in some things that I like in a guy below in the "you should message me if..." section in the mean time here are some things about me:
I believe that people bring out the worst or the best in each other. I'm kind of a sponge. If you're quiet/awkward/insecure then I'm going to reflect the same thing. If you're open/chatty/warm then its going to bring out those qualities in me too...So please don't be awkward!
I'm pretty down to earth. I do consider myself a homebody, but I like to go out as well, I just am not a heavy drinker. I enjoy cardio kickboxing. I also love the fact, that I'm completely finished with all advanced math in my life. I'm not math, science person, but that doesn't mean I'm not interested in someone who is.
I'm girly: I like dressing up, wearing dresses, and heels. I do my nails frequently. I also was in the habit of changing my hair color a lot, currently a brunette and no plans to go back to blonde per strict orders from my hairdresser! I don't like bugs. That said I love video games, N64 is my specialty, and DS. I can however adapt to Playstation, and love the NaziZombie game on Call of Duty.
I was born in Florida, spent a few years in North Carolina, was a resident of San Diego and L.A. for a few, and I called Massachusetts home for ten years, moved back to LA just recently!
I am fun, warm, and silly