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MeatNorDrink

31 M 成都, China

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Sep 27
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Skinny
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Desperately
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Speaks
English, Chinese, French, Turkish (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I live in Mianyang, China, at the moment, as I have for a few years in the past. (Mianyang doesn't show up as a place on OKC, but it's close to Chengdu). Here, I work on Chinese, calligraphy, and watch Sichuan Opera. I teach at a University.
I'm from the US, and spend most of my years there. There, I work at or manage organic farms, ride bikes, and do a bunch of other things when I have time. (Spin wool, make woodcuts, learn Middle English ballads...Such.)

I want to say up front, I'm non-monogamous (poly). What that means to me moves depending on where I'm at with my life, but if it totally turns you off, best to know up front. I have one significant partner at the moment.

I've spent a good bit of my adult life either on egalitarian intentional communities (communes) or in China. Both have affected my world view quite a bit.

我在绵阳的一个大学当教师。在美国,我在一个果园工作。我对中文,书法,川剧都干兴趣 。
我有几个特点我应该说明:我是"poly",是说我不想结婚,不接受一个人只能又一个爱人。我知道,这是大部分的人不能接受的。
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Oh, jeez, like I know. Enjoying it, at the least.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Languages? Learning poetry and long middle-english ballads by heart. Really long.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I absolutely love live theater (Ibsen, Beckett, all kinds of musicals).

Edna St. Vincent Millay.

Sherlock and Firefly are kinda' awesome.

I don't listen to much recorded music, but Gogol Bordello, Decemberists, Les Cowboys Fringants et Jean Leloup are also all pretty cool.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
You know, I always just look at this question to see if the person said "sex."
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sad sad humanity.
Also, why am I not living such that I can cozy around the fire with three or four friends every night drinking and reading stories to each other? And music and singing?
It's going on my to-do list. That'll help.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Eating decadent brie-burgers and drinking and smoking with a partner in crime.
Or, spinning (wool) and reading the New Yorker with a cigarette and a cocktail by myself. Not bad either.
(That was true. Probably will be similar here, with 火锅 instead of burgers?)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I love reading 70's Doonesbury's on the toilet.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're pretty awesome?

(And, you're ok that I'm poly, of course).

I'd love to meet some new friends, romantic or not, in this strange new land.