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31 M Northampton, MA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 27
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
English, Chinese, French, Turkish (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a manager at a non-certified organic farm.
I spend time on a bunch of other stuff--languages (Chinese, Turkish, French), spinning wool, woodwork, middle-english ballads, banjos, bicycles. I really love my bikes.
I've spent a good bit of my adult life either on egalitarian intentional communities (communes) or in China. This has affected my world view quite a bit.

A few notes, which might be deal-breakers for you:
-I don't have a car, I bike everywhere, so if you live in Brattleboro I'd love to meet you, but I probably won't bike up.
-Not into monogamy or having children. I don't mind folks who already have them, just don't want to make my own.

Contrary to what the elder generation told me, the older I get the less into both I get.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to figure that out. Enjoying it, at the least.
I’m really good at
Languages? Learning poetry and long middle-english ballads by heart. Really long.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I absolutely love live theater (Ibsen, Beckett, all kinds of musicals).

Edna St. Vincent Millay.

Sherlock and Firefly are kinda' awesome.

I don't listen to much recorded music, but Gogol Bordello, Decemberists, Les Cowboys Fringants et Jean Leloup are also all pretty cool.
The six things I could never do without
You know, I always just look at this question to see if the person said "sex."
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Sad sad humanity.
Also, why am I not living such that I can cozy around the fire with three or four friends every night drinking and reading stories to each other? And music and singing?
It's going on my to-do list. That'll help.
On a typical Friday night I am
Eating decadent brie-burgers and drinking and smoking with a partner in crime.
Or, spinning (wool) and reading the New Yorker with a cigarette and a cocktail by myself. Not bad either.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love reading 70's Doonesbury's on the toilet.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You are passionate about something, and will show me.

You play the violin. Or anything, really.

You can put some of my homespun to good use.

You look sexy on a bike. (Of course you do).

You are passionately in love with Edna St. Vincent Millay. And can speak her poems aloud to me from memory. (You may substitute your favorite poet).

Fine cocktails and a touch of good rolling tobacco on a porch sounds like an evening well spent.

Any of the above.