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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 23–55
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 2:37pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
When drinking
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Less than $20,000
Doesn’t have kids
English, Chinese (Fluently), French (Fluently), Turkish (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I'm from Maine, and will be returning to the States this summer--Rockland and Portland, ME will certainly be involved, and possibly Northampton MA. (Now, I'm back).

There, I work as a farmer. I spend a good bit of time on bikes and music. I have a lot of old hobbies, such as woodcut printing, middle-english ballads, and spinning wool.

Here, I teach English as best I can (my job), and study Chinese and China, especially calligraphy and Sichuan opera.

I've spent a good bit of my adult life either on egalitarian intentional communities (communes) or in China. Now I think I would like to get back to the States and settle down a bit farming. Though I've said that before.

我在绵阳的一个大学当教师。在美国,我工作在一个果园。我对中文,书法,川剧都感兴趣 。
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to get really good at Chinese, at the moment.

Soon, I'll be trying to find a place I can farm and make enough to live decently, and hopefully find some folks to people the landscape.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Languages, and learning poetry and long middle-english ballads by heart. Really long.

I also think I'm a good cook and drink-mixer, but that is a matter of opinion.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I absolutely love live theater (Ibsen, Beckett, all kinds of musicals).

I also love Edna St. Vincent Millay.

I just keep reading the Sherlock Holmes stories over and over.

Sherlock and Firefly are kinda' awesome.

Gogol Bordello, Decemberists, Les Cowboys Fringants et Jean Leloup are also all pretty great the few times I'm stuck driving.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Oh, I really can't do these lists. My health, hands, and some quiet are probably three of them.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
China, at the moment. Community, companionship, and the best and most realistic way to achieve them personally and in general. Pruning.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Here, eating really spicy food somewhere, probably with my new 'brothers' from the next table. 中国人真好客。
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I love reading 70's Doonesbury's on the toilet. Devastatingly, they are not available in China.
You should message me if
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If you do theater. I've always wanted to date a theater person.


If you'd like to (one or more)
1) drink cocktails on a porch
2) play backgammon, cribbage, or scrabble
3) eat something delicious
4) you have a better idea

and you think I might be good company for it.