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37 M Philadelphia, PA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:41pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Working on space camp
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I left home young and found my own way. That has worked out pretty well for me. I try to stay ahead of the game, or just avoid it entirely. I moved to the city after most people who could leave had done just that. It seemed like, among those who had stayed, and those who decided to move in, there was a high concentration of strength and vision - dreamers, builders, activists and anarchists, people with perspective who held themselves to high standards and didn't take too much for granted, especially their own comfort. I've changed and grown a lot over the years, but have tried to hold onto some of that vision. I believe in building things, in enlightened self-interest which is, maybe, the idea that we can have what we need, even what we most want, without leaving the whole world as a burnt out shell. I think that many of the social and economic structures around us should and probably will fall, and I've tried to think low on the food chain, to figure out what is essential and be a part of that. I also believe in adventure. I think that life should be fun.
What I’m doing with my life
I play in two bands - the mellowton3s - a non-ironic lounge act digging for good tunes and serving them up with a healthy dose of psyche & reverb, and sgnls, an electro-punk three- (soon to be four-) piece that might make your hair fall out, but will definitely leave your ears ringing if you don't bring ear plugs. Be warned! Also: building the internet.
I’m really good at
I'm not as humble as I wish I was, but still feel weird listing the things I'm good at.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm missing one of my front teeth (gasp!).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Authors: Samuel Delany, Octavia Butler, James Tiptree Jr, Burroughs, Ursula K Leguin, some other stuff that isn't queer dystopian feminist scifi...

Movies: Bladerunner, Desperate Living, Night on Earth, Miller's Crossing, Svankmejer, Kurosawa, Almodovar.

Music: Joy Division, Siouxie, 9353, Devo, Ruin, Jobim, Thelonius Monk, Dina Washington, Duke Ellington.
The six things I could never do without
Probably most of the things on the periodic table, but that's cheating , since it's more than six. This question seems fallacious at best. 25c words?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Feral wetlands & other wilderness, artificial intelligence, underground culture, travel, history, my favorite books, how to get a lounge band onto a spaceship.
On a typical Friday night I am
Poorly lit basement - very loud.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I watched c-beams glitter in the dark at the Tanhauser Gate...
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 25–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You can pass the turing test