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41 M Miami Beach, FL

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 30–40
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:06pm
5′ 10″ (1.77m)
Body Type
Not at all
Graduated from Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Wants kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Swedish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I’m a fun "nice" well educated (with ZERO debt) family-oriented guy (my parents never divorced) with a world living experience in the search of a soul mate. I'm very open to people and customs. Not sure about this site, but tired of meaningless dates in bars, discos, maybe it is a worth a try. Can you help me to improve this description? maybe, in the process, it becomes obsolete :)

Someone said that dating a person is like taking a (long academic) course on that person, which becomes useless once the couple breaks up. I’m here to take a long course, which remains valid for the rest of my life.

Hej så länge, hasta luego!!

PS: Although expected, I’m very disappointed about this. That’s why I’ve changed the description to “located everywhere” and some "funny stories", "jokes", etc have been inserted. Well, if you have sense of humor then, at least this profile can be enjoyable to read :)
(Apologies for the possible inevitable typos. I have noticed that the web browsers, in an effort to auto-correct, jump some typed words, making me look like an uneducated person :( . Also, I do speak three languages, and when I’m tired, I mix them haha)

The ladies that have shown interest in me, and I like, live in other cities, states. Is it time to leave this city?

By the way, my geographic limits are within USA borders and within western Europe (EU) (places where I’ve permanent residence, citizenship and currently living/visiting).
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm always studing (work related), reading everything, hungry and addicted to knowledge with several University degrees (have been tuned down in this profile before) and research publications. Training (and dancig), to be in shape, physically and mentally, etc.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I won't brag . . . :)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It is said that I'm smart, witty, deep, joker, musical (play musical instrument and dancing), I’m bragging :)

Although they sounds as advantages, it is difficult to find a smart female out there that matches my expectatons when it comes to physical attraction, combined with the aforementioned characteristics. Am I asking too much? :)

This part was written by some ladies: "If you were looking for a handsome man, extremely intelligent, great dancer, well educated, funny, nice, you came to the right place. Look no further. According to many ladies he is a catch (his mother is excluded in that list :)), so he is looking for the "lady catch” elsewhere. Where are you?"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I enjoy reading Thomas Sowell’s books.
Dancing casino is a favorite, many other things as well :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I’m not attached to material things, but rather to my families, friends, etc.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
... a lot of things

I’m sure you can agree with me that there exist many unanswered philosophical questions. For instance: If size matters, why are there so many Chinese? (. . . take your time to get the joke :) )

A lot of women write that they choose their love partners based on chemistry, what about physics? and what about mathematics, . . .you know, 1+1=n, where n >2?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Perhaps to go out and dance casino (I wonder if you know what "that" is :) )
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Although I have had natural blonds girlfriends, I do have a problem with fake blonds, with natural dark eyebrows. Come on, do you really think that we men are so stupid? :)

I’ve been told that I’m the 2% of the people on online dating sites who is looking for something real. Well, Where are those 2% ladies out there? Maybe it is less than so nowadays :(

I don’t find that most of the alcohol related drinks have good taste, but the pros with that is that I'm the perfect designated driver (you will always reach home safely).

I’m vegetarian.....but not during meals :)

Someone told me that in Chinese Zodiac‏, the month of one’s birth is the love sign, and in my case, I’m a pig!!. Hopefully you do NOT believe in that ;)

Interesting that more than few ladies have confessed to be attracted to what they (want to) see as my vampire-like (à la Twilight) teeth, to find out later that they are useful to bite their neck when . . . :) . . . . . . women :)

Regardless how nice I can be, there are some ladies out there looking for a “quickie”. Once, one of my ex called me to find out whether or not I was available, and I responded cautiously, telling her that I was in a relationship with a lady which has an unborn child. But she was persistent and then she asked “How long has she been pregnant?” and I responded: " . . . half an hour" :)

Once I had a stalker. Wherever I went, she was there. If I went to a party, she followed me, it was painful; she even didn't want me to meet girls. Then, I thought: "I should find another girlfriend" ;)
(I hope you got the joke)

As someone said once: “I do have three general requests here: 1) to find a girl; 2) that she always has been a female; 3) if not, Can she keep the secret?“ :)

I hope one thing: that your parents didn’t meet for the first time in the same family reunion :)

For those ladies with past promiscuous lives, please, don’t blame you parents for giving you bad advice, because I’m sure they had another intention when they told things like "concentrate in your career and screw the rest" :)

I'm worried about how the kids are taught today, e.g. that it is OK a girl passes out and a man kisses her. Tales like sleeping beauty should be forbidden, right? ;)

True story: I contacted a cute RED hair girl here once. She was original from Arkansas. She replied me, asking me about my origin, but then she disappeared. Probably, she realized we were not from the same family tree.
Apparently, a turnoff for this girl with hair of the same color as her neck.
(With the above, my chances with Arkansas' chicks are slim now *sob*. But well, I'm looking for a strong woman with healthy values, a go-getter, or using the English expression: capable "to put your TEETH into things". The last part seems hard for some people :) . . . used to easy, soft things, . . .and junk food, I guess because most of the things they like are "in bread". Damn...Is Alabama gone too?)

Seriously, I’m used to deal with people with all walks of life (despite I’m an engineer-mathematician) and understandable, we all have tastes, but I have hard with narrow minded people.
To be fair, bigotry exists in every color :(
Once I like what I see and some educational backgrounds are outlined, I try to see the person in question :)

I’m not into blind dates, due to one bad experience. It didn’t start in that way, until the chick used pepper spray:)
(Just kidding)

I have had long relationships, so I’m “trained” to put the toilet seat down, aware of that I will never win an argument, and women expect instantly response from what they are thinking. However, I have not reached that level of power, of thinking something and then happening, as women have. For instance, how many times I have thought of something and my chick said "ain’t going to happen tonight, honey" :)

Apparently, some ladies think that they will get more opportunity if they show pics of themselves together with gorgeous friends (as an attempt to disguise own asymmetries via the symmetry built in a group). Really? I would understand, though, they have pics with less attractive friends :)
It is up to you, but don’t get mad if you are asked: ”Is the gorgeous girl to your left in that picture single?” :)

You have to wonder why many ladies have pictures of themselves with DRINKS in their hands, smiling and somehow inebriated. Is that what I'm supposed to expect when I come home? :)

How many times we ended up in the same situation we started from, no matter what we do. In that respect, I guess, there exist many that have found their exes in these kind of sites and now are back to find a new partner. This situation reminds me the old story of a louse, who meets another louse, who was freezing.
-“What happened to you?”,
-“Well, I came in a mustache of a man riding a motorcycle”, replies the frozen louse.
-“You should do as I do when I travel. I choose a stewardess, climb up to her parts, and I sleep in a warm place all the way until my final destination. Do what I do next time”.
A year later both lice meet,
-“ Why are you frozen again?”.
-“I did what you told me, I did choose a stewardess, climbed up to her parts, and fell asleep. But I was awakened, frozen, in a mustache of a man riding a motorcycle“ :)

Every time I see profiles of ladies with pictures of themselves hanging out with men in sexy postures I wonder: “and the point is?” (besides looking for self-reassurance) :)
Apparently, FB is not enough for some :)

It is interesting every time you read profiles where open expressions like “and I expect he supports me” are found, whilst some sentences below this is read “I’m looking for a financially secure man", instead of financialy responsible man. Do I need to say more? :)
If your real intention is just to find someone who will pay your bills . . . look elsewhere. (After I have posted these sentences, I have received almost zero messages :)).

To Gold Diggers: No, relationships have nothing to do with a retirement plan. I believe you are thinking about marriage without prenup. In that case, even if you give me your phone number, don’t wait for a "ring". No, investment in "personal growth" HAS to do with education, not with boob jobs.

Joke aside, I’m looking for a grown independent woman, not a girl, who is looking for LOVE, and wants me for who I am, not for what I do have.

The other thing is that most of the (monolingual) people here present themself as super active individuals, jumping out of air planes, a sort of competitions about how many countries they have been, how many places they have visited, etc. These presentations are open to a wide range of interpretations, for instance: Are they subliminally implying how many people they have been with? Or for that matter: Do they have ADHD? You never know :)

Sometimes, this is read in women’s profiles: “I like electronic gadgets”. I wonder what they mean. Are they subliminally implying that they have dildos? You never know :)

I have noticed that some have chosen the "I might want kids".
What does that mean? Like, Ops! honey I'm pregnant?, or a "might" as a never, but write “might” to keep a man like rabbit behind the (never reaching) carrot?, or as a conditional to an assurance of a "retirement plan"?, or the real answer is adapted based on who is asking, in case he dislikes kids?, or?.
You never know :)

I do not make new year's resolutions anymore, but instead I make other people’s, . . . you should lose weight, 10 pounds per week, you should stop smoking, etc . . . the issue was that I said that to the same person..... That’s why I’m single now :)
(just kidding)

I’m looking for my soul mate, for the rest of my life, so we can grow older, so that at the end of our lives, the foreplay is reduced to "Wake up!!" and after intimate moments the response to the question “Was it good?” is “I don’t remember” :)

Psss…do you want to hear a secret? :) ….if you think that you are experienced and smart enough to take advantage of me and/or manipulate me in anyway….keep dreaming :)

Ah, for those of you using internet to find out about me, BEFORE asking me: I have planted e-traps on the net, so I will get information about who and from where you are looking for me. Gotcha ;)
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Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I’m little bit skeptical (based on past experiences) about these internet sites. I'm a serious person, so please, be serious with me. If you don't have a picture, or you are hiding your face with hair, dark glasses, etc, I will interpret it as you are in a relationship. It seems to be that many of the women in these sites are just looking for attention, rather than a partner. Please, don’t waste my time, if you are just looking for attention. :)

Assume you are a woman working 50+ hours a week, and the little time you have left you use it to travel, hobbies, etc. So my question is: Do you think you have time left to find a partner? I’m writing this because there are a lot of ladies in these sites that have signed in, just to “see what happens” but have no time left (or desire) to actually get to know a man. Some have even ff (or whatever it is called nowadays). A relationship is more than an extra suitcase or dancing partner. Please, think about it :)

If you labeled yourself as “available”, instead of “single”(=alone, no seeing anyone), then it can be interpreted as you have someone (e.g. a ff) but are still looking. Please, I am just looking for single women.

There are even ladies on this site living in remote parts of the world who are looking for men, so they can come to Miami, live in those men’s places, while visiting Miami. WT…!!

It is understandable that people put the best pictures (after 100+ tries ;) ) and lie about their age. For instance, the last time I lied about my age was when I was 20 years old, and that was for about ….. 10 years ago :). Also, it is well known that women have the capacity to fake satisfaction for the sake of love, while men fake love for . . . ;) . Seriously, it is important to be honest about the intentions.

Speaking about age: It is interesting to notice how many ladies are on this site, claiming to be 39 years old. Noo, most of them are not lying, noo ;)

This site is somehow funny, because I cannot find a place to write the color of my (green) eyes. It is said that the eyes are the mirror of one’s soul. At the same time, this site tries to match people based on questions when it is known that, usually, people are drawn to the opposite without knowing which differences are the most attractive. Therefore I’ve stopped answering those pre-fabricated questions and it is up to you to ask me what you really want to know about me.

Speaking about the questionnaire here in OKC: I answered the question "How do you feel about kids?" with the given choice "Kids are precious - they love me and I love them!".
But please, don't take my answer out of context ;)

A message to Miami girls: You are an independent woman and therefore, you don’t live with your parents or friends.

Ah, we men are aware of the women “looking for just friends” trick ;)

I found (on Internet) this statement that suits me: “When people ask me why I don’t have any tattoos I ask them ‘Would you put a bumper sticker on a Ferrari?’ “

It is said that a relationship can be stronger when a couple has common kids. That's why my search is limited up to +/- 40 ladies (i.e. not necessarily up to that number), due to obvious biological reasons.

Life has its turns, and after some years in UK and Sweden I hope to find a girl with teeth and sober here :).
(just kidding)

Please, I’m looking for the real thing, so if you have gone through cosmetic, aesthetic plastic surgery, please, I’m not the man you are looking for (this implies that a large percentage of the ladies here are excluded ;) ).

If you don’t refer to the 12 grade as your "senior year", but have finished (and ongoing?) academic studies, you are healthy, both physical (i.e. no herpes, AIDS, etc ) and mentally (i.e. no drama or "area" princess syndrome (PS), AS, bipolar, or any other physiological disorder :) ), CALM positive girl then, it is a good start. Yes, you are positive, but not in HIV :) . Also, but not limited to, you can survive by your own (e.g. you can cook, do the laundry, clean your place, etc for yourself, beyond ADLs). That is, I'm looking for a woman, who is in the "1 %" :)

Don't expect to get a date IRL with me right away. There exist some steps:
1-Online chatting, to see whether there is a communication.
2-Skype date, to really see that you are the one behind the pictures.
3-If the above goes OK, then the date IRL.

I'm not looking for the perfect woman but the imperfect one, who is perfect for me :)

PS: Well, at least I hope you have had some fun reading my profile (having in mind that very few ladies are actually here for the sake of dating).