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mecobio

40 / M / Straight / Single

Miami Beach, Florida

His Details

Last Online
Today – 12:03am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.77m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
Offspring
Wants kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Swedish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I’m a fun "nice" well educated (with ZERO debt) guy with a world living experience in the search of a soul mate. I'm very open to people and customs. Not sure about this site, but tired of meaningless dates in bars, discos, maybe it is a worth a try. Can you help me to improve this description? maybe, in the process, it becomes obsolete :)

Hej så länge, hasta luego!!

PS: Although expected, I’m very disappointed about this. That’s why I’ve changed the description to “located everywhere” and some "funny stories", "jokes", etc have been inserted. Well, if you have sense of humor then, at least this profile can be enjoyable to read :) .

The ladies that have shown interest in me, and I like, live in other cities, states. Is it time to leave this city? The consequence is that I’m getting out of this city. Still I can check e-mails though my cellphone.

By the way, my geographic limits are within western Europe (EU) and USA borders (places where I’ve lived/visited and currently living/visiting).
What I’m doing with my life
I'm always studing (work related), reading everything, hungry and addicted to knowledge. Training (and dancig), to be in shape, physically and mentally, etc.
I’m really good at
I won't brag . . . :)
The first things people usually notice about me
It is said that I'm smart, witty, deep, joker, musical (play musical instrument and dancing), etc....now I’m bragging :)

Although they sounds as advantages, it is difficult to find a smart female out there that matches my expectatons when it comes to physical attraction, combined with the aforementioned characteristics. Am I asking too much? :)

This part was written by some ladies: "If you were looking for a handsome man, extremely intelligent, great dancer, well educated, funny, nice, you came to the right place. Look no further. According to many ladies he is a catch (his mother is excluded in that list :)), so he is looking for the "lady catch” elsewhere. Where are you?"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Dancing casino is a favorite, many other things as well :)
The six things I could never do without
I’m not attached to material things, but rather to my families, friends, etc.
On a typical Friday night I am
Perhaps to go out and dance casino (I wonder if you know what "that" is :) )
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Although I have had natural blonds girlfriends, I do have a problem with fake blonds, with natural dark eyebrows. Come on, do you really think that we men are so stupid? :)

I’ve been told that I’m the 2% of the people on online dating sites who is looking for something real. Well, Where are those 2% ladies out there? Maybe it is less than so nowadays

I don’t find that most of the alcohol related drinks have good taste, but the pros with that is that I'm the perfect designated driver (you will always reach home safely).

I’m vegetarian.....but not during meals :)

Someone told me that in Chinese Zodiac‏, the month of one’s birth is the love sign, and in my case, I’m a pig!!. Hopefully you do NOT believe in that ;)

Interesting that more than few ladies have confessed to be attracted to what they (want to) see as my vampire-like (à la Twilight) teeth, to find out later that they are useful to bite their neck when . . . :) . . . . . . women :)

While women tend to lie on their ages, men does it on sizes. A consequence of social pressure. So relax ladies. Men prefer to go out with a middle age (e.g. 35

Regardless how nice I can be, there are some ladies out there looking for a “quickie”. Once, one of my ex called me to find out whether or not I was available, and I responded cautiously, telling her that I was in a relationship with an unborn child. But she was persistent and then she asked “How long has she been pregnant?” and I responded . . . half an hour :)

Apparently, some ladies think that they will get more opportunity if they show pics of themselves together with gorgeous friends. Really? I would understand, though, they have pics with less attractive friends :)
It is up to you, but don’t get mad if you are asked: ”Is the gorgeous girl to your left in that picture single?” :)

You have to wonder why many ladies have pictures of themselves with DRINKS in their hands, smiling and somehow inebriated. Is that what I'm supposed to expect when I come home? :)

Every time I see profiles of ladies with pictures of themselves hanging out with men in sexy postures I wonder: “and the point is?” (besides looking for self-reassurance) :)
Apparently, FB is not enough for some :)

It is interesting every time you read profiles where open expressions like “and I expect he supports me” are found, whilst some sentences below this is read “I’m looking for a financially secure man". Do I need to say more? :)
If your real intention is just to find someone who will pay your bills . . . look elsewhere. (After I have posted these sentences, I have received almost zero messages).

The other thing is that most of the people here present themself as super active individuals, jumping out of air planes, a sort of competitions about how many countries they have been, how many places they have visited, etc. These presentations are open to a wide range of interpretations, for instance: Are they subliminally implying how many people they have been with? Or for that matter that they have ADHD? You never know :)

I do not make new year's resolutions anymore, but instead I make other people’s, . . . you should lose weight, 10 pounds per week, you should stop smoking, etc . . . the issue was that I said that to the same person..... That’s why I’m single now :)
(just kidding)

Psss…do you want to hear a secret? :) ….if you think that you are experienced and smart enough to take advantage of me and/or manipulate me in anyway….keep dreaming :)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–40
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
I’m little bit skeptical (based on past experiences) about these internet sites. I'm a serious person, so please, be serious with me. If you don't have a picture, or you are hiding your face with hair, dark glasses, etc, I will interpret it as you are in a relationship. It seems to be that many of the women in these sites are just looking for attention, rather than a partner. Please, don’t waste my time, if you are just looking for attention. :)

Assume you are a woman working 50+ hours a week, and the little time you have left you use it to travel, hobbies, etc. So my question is: Do you think you have time left to find a partner? I’m writing this because there are a lot of ladies in these sites that have signed in, just to “see what happens” but have no time left (or desire) to actually get to know a man. Some have even ff (or whatever it is called nowadays). A relationship is more than an extra suitcase or dancing partner. Please, think about it :)

If you labeled yourself as “available”, instead of “single”, then it can be interpreted as you have someone (e.g. a ff) but are still looking. Please, I am just looking for single women.

It is understandable that people put the best pictures and lie about their age. For instance, the last time I lied about my age was when I was 20 years old, and that was for about ….. 10 years ago :). Seriously, it is important to be honest about the intentions.

This site is somehow funny, because I cannot find a place to write the color of my (green) eyes. It is said that the eyes are the mirror of one’s soul. At the same time, this site tries to match people based on questions when it is known that, usually, people are drawn to the opposite without knowing which differences are the most attractive. Therefore I’ve stopped answering those pre-fabricated questions and it is up to you to ask me what you really want to know about me.

It is said that a relationship can be stronger when a couple has common kids. That's why my search is limited up to +/- 40 ladies (i.e. not necessarily up to that number), due to obvious biological reasons.

Life has its turns, and after some years in UK and Sweden I hope to find a girl with teeth and sober here :).
(just kidding)

If you have finished (and ongoing?) academic studies, you are healthy, both physical (i.e. no herpes, AIDS, etc ) and mentally (i.e. no drama or "area" princess syndrome (PS), AS, or any other physiological disorder :) ), CALM positive girl then, it is a good start.

PS: Well, at least I hope you have had some fun reading my profile (having in mind that very few ladies are actually here for the sake of dating).