OK , so here's the deal - I'm not looking for anyone in particular
just at the moment . I'm in an interesting and complicated
relationship and I'm still married besides . So , my plate is full
but , there's always room for dessert . I have a teenager and she's
pretty awesome for a teen , no real power struggles and she likes
me most of the time . I'm self employed and do all that's necessary
to pay my way . I like the company of a man but I don't "NEED" one
. I like to learn and do things .I'm a big fan of reading . I like
to just be , and not worry about the next moment before it arrives
. I have lots of goals and aspirations - I keep pretty busy and I
like to relax when I can find the time . I'm still looking to
fulfill some teen dreams - big property up north , my own business
, vacation home - you know the usual . But I do feel its all
Latest update- I'm now a business owner , Yea! Me! Now I just have
to make rest of the dreams come true , can you keep up with me ?!
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to balance a business with family and still find time to sleep and recreate(pronounced - reck re ate).
I’m really good at
I was an art-major and I enjoy creating beautiful things . I rebuilt my home 14 years ago , I did all of it-even the messy,dirty,painful stuff . I'm a terrific cook and I love hearing the "yummies" and "OOOOH AAAH"'s. I'm dependable and trustworthy . I'm honest , my word is my bond and I expect no more from anyone else than I expect from myself - which is considerable , unfortunately I also have no filter- I seem to tell the truth at the worst possible moments too. I'm a good listener and cheerleader when its necessary.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I don't look even close to being 43 years old ! My coloring , people notice the almost black hair and eyes I was lucky enough to inherit from my Native American Grammy and my glow-in-the-dark ,whiter than white skin from my Irish Nana . Sometimes my hair has a few streaks of pinball machine light Red or Purple or even Turquoise in it (Red right now). I've been told repeatedly that my clothes are "smashing "!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read way too many how to and referance books , I was told as a
child that I could learn to do anything and for the most part its
turned out to be true . I love live music ,art shows ,almost any of
the performing arts , with the exception of mimes - can't stand em'
, they're creepy....
The six things I could never do without
My child , understanding , affection , warm hugs , fresh air and
Spagettio's !(I've recently learned to live without spagettio's - I
ve developed some food sensitivities that make them and a few other
things an impossibility, super sadness....)So , I'll replace that
with my grammy's pumpkin chiffon pie.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How different my life will be if I hadn't gone to summer camp with my friend Vicky as a counselor's assistant.........and also if I'd spent more time out in western Mass. when I was younger and who I may have met instead of who I did meet in eastern Mass.
On a typical Friday night I am
Ending a crazy work week and trying to figure out how the week end is going to go! (My week end is Sunday and Monday , I work most Saturdays as a stylist )
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Some days I miss my stuffed Snuffleupagus from when I was a kid.....
You should message me if
You'd like to get to know me , you're a millionaire and want to lavish me with gifts and trips to some place warm, please- even if its a prize winning marlin that you caught on your own yacht - no dead fish pictures, or you want to build a temple in my honor and dedicate your life to my worship. It's all good!