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43 Haverhill, MA Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 35-50
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Nov 22
Native American, White
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Full figured
Other and it’s important
Dropped out of Post grad
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has cats
English (Somewhat), Other (Fluently)
My self-summary
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OK , so here's the deal - I'm not looking for anyone in particular just at the moment . I'm in an interesting and complicated relationship and I'm still married besides . So , my plate is full but , there's always room for dessert . I have a teenager and she's pretty awesome for a teen , no real power struggles and she likes me most of the time . I'm self employed and do all that's necessary to pay my way . I like the company of a man but I don't "NEED" one . I like to learn and do things .I'm a big fan of reading . I like to just be , and not worry about the next moment before it arrives . I have lots of goals and aspirations - I keep pretty busy and I like to relax when I can find the time . I'm still looking to fulfill some teen dreams - big property up north , my own business , vacation home - you know the usual . But I do feel its all possible .
Latest update- I'm now a business owner , Yea! Me! Now I just have to make rest of the dreams come true , can you keep up with me ?!
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to balance a business with family and still find time to sleep and recreate(pronounced - reck re ate).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I was an art-major and I enjoy creating beautiful things . I rebuilt my home 14 years ago , I did all of it-even the messy,dirty,painful stuff . I'm a terrific cook and I love hearing the "yummies" and "OOOOH AAAH"'s. I'm dependable and trustworthy . I'm honest , my word is my bond and I expect no more from anyone else than I expect from myself - which is considerable , unfortunately I also have no filter- I seem to tell the truth at the worst possible moments too. I'm a good listener and cheerleader when its necessary.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I don't look even close to being 43 years old ! My coloring , people notice the almost black hair and eyes I was lucky enough to inherit from my Native American Grammy and my glow-in-the-dark ,whiter than white skin from my Irish Nana . Sometimes my hair has a few streaks of pinball machine light Red or Purple or even Turquoise in it (Red right now). I've been told repeatedly that my clothes are "smashing "!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I read way too many how to and referance books , I was told as a child that I could learn to do anything and for the most part its turned out to be true . I love live music ,art shows ,almost any of the performing arts , with the exception of mimes - can't stand em' , they're creepy....
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My child , understanding , affection , warm hugs , fresh air and Spagettio's !(I've recently learned to live without spagettio's - I ve developed some food sensitivities that make them and a few other things an impossibility, super sadness....)So , I'll replace that with my grammy's pumpkin chiffon pie.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How different my life will be if I hadn't gone to summer camp with my friend Vicky as a counselor's assistant.........and also if I'd spent more time out in western Mass. when I was younger and who I may have met instead of who I did meet in eastern Mass.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Ending a crazy work week and trying to figure out how the week end is going to go! (My week end is Sunday and Monday , I work most Saturdays as a stylist )
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Some days I miss my stuffed Snuffleupagus from when I was a kid.....
You should message me if
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You'd like to get to know me , you're a millionaire and want to lavish me with gifts and trips to some place warm, please- even if its a prize winning marlin that you caught on your own yacht - no dead fish pictures, or you want to build a temple in my honor and dedicate your life to my worship. It's all good!