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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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Last online
Yesterday – 5:55am
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Post grad
English (Fluently), Icelandic (Fluently), German (Fluently), Danish (Fluently), Italian (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm a scholar and a (classical) musician. I'm a creative, ambitious guy but also laid-back and try not to take life too seriously. I love to travel and am fortunate enough to get to do a lot of it. Chocolate is my guilty pleasure.
What I’m doing with my life
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I finished my PhD at Harvard a few years ago and am now busy doing research and writing books. I am also a pianist and play concerts occasionally, which is great fun.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
playing piano, running, reading, spending money, staying calm, making desserts, impersonating Björk. (It's all about the accent.)

I'm not good at walking slowly. You have been warned.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Someone recently described me as "wholesome and sexy."
I'll take it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Blindness, Crime and Punishment, The Line of Beauty, Saturday, Atonement, Shakespeare, biographies, the New Yorker magazine.

Movies: Adaptation, After the Wedding, I Am Love, Little Miss Sunshine, Moonrise Kingdom, Babel, The Kings's Speech, Pan's Labyrinth, What's Up, Doc?, Volver, The Lives of Others, Amadeus.

Music: Classical, Björk, Sigur Rós, ABBA, Michael Jackson, Scissor Sisters, Ella Fitzgerald, Stephen Sondheim, Miles Davis.

TV: The Daily Show, Modern Family, The Big Bang Theory, Will and Grace. Also, Danish crime series.

Food: Sushi, Italian, Thai, Indian. Pizza. Dark chocolate. Orange juice.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My passport.
My computer.
A comfortable bed.
Intellectual stimulation.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what to eat for dinner, exotic future travel plans, how to write elegant academic prose, global warming, who shot JFK.

No, of course not.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
having a good time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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That I'm even here.
You should message me if
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you're an interesting, intelligent, good-looking guy and you think we'd hit it off.

you're Seth Meyers. No, seriously, if you're Seth Meyers you should send me a message right now.

Or if you're up for getting coffee or a drink sometime and just seeing where that takes us.