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43 San Mateo, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27-46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
May 20, 2014
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5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
A little extra
Working on Space camp
Has dogs
My self-summary
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I'm a fun, quick witted, attached guy who's looking for some extra spice in my life. No I'm not cheating; my lovely girlfriend is here too (meeshsnova) and we're totally open and honest about our adventures. I'm basically looking to meet a fun, funny, interesting woman to hang out with and have some fun times with but nothing serious. That's not to say I'm looking for one-nighters, either; my ideal situation would be something steady with a woman I enjoy spending time with each week, someone I can share conversations with, in addition to having fun. If you are a single woman looking to get attached, I'm definitely not your guy. I'm really just looking for new friends with fun benefits. The emotional thing is covered (so I won't be relying on you to fill that need in my life), but the thrill of new physical intimacy is an ever-present necessity in my life. If you are open minded and don't mind that I'll never ask to stay overnight, then I just might be the right guy to have hang around once in awhile. I'm particularly interested in other poly/open folks with a kinky side.

I like to laugh....A LOT!! If it's one thing I'm known for, it's making the people in my life laugh OFTEN!

Moved here for in November 2010 from the tri-state area of New York/PA, NJ. Met my beautiful girlfriend on here a year later. Now we're in an open relationship where we both play with others; I'm back looking for a play partner who's looking for some fun and likes the idea that I'm attached.
What I’m doing with my life
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October 2013: I have an interesting job that can be, at times, very demanding of my time. However, I do NOT live to work -- I work to live. I have many interests outside of work. I believe in working hard so I can play even harder.

Also looking at going back to school to finish my undergrad, then grad school, for physical therapy.

Been working in aviation for the past 15yrs and have loved it! I started my aviation career with the Marine Corps as a helicopter mechanic & crew chief. That was an amazing time, full of many many wonderful memories! When I left the Corps, I found a job that focused on scheduling pilots & flight attendants. I took a short 2yr hiatus from scheduling in order to take a job with Boeing as a Technical Writer. It was a lot of fun to work in such a technical job that allowed you to use colored pencils, lol. Working only as a contractor, though, I was one of many to be let go when there were budget issues. I eventually found my way back to the airlines working with scheduling pilots & flight attendants again.

However, its time for a career change, which is why I'll soon be going back to school for a job that a) piques my interest, b) suits my skill sets, c) offers better stability than the airline industry, and d) offers a gentler quality of life than airlines do, lol. Looking at different schools for physical therapy, as that seems to fit my skill sets best.

Working hard, playing harder, and keeping busy with learning new things along the way.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not too sure what to put here...sounds too much like bragging about one's self.

Love to laugh, love to find the humor in nearly any situation; I use a lot of humor to diffuse difficult/stressful situations. Seem to be able to find the silver lining in nearly any situation. Been through too much to not have learned how to appreciate things in life.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My style of humor. I've been told I have the mix of styles from Christopher Walken & Dennis Leary.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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HIMYM and the obligatory Star Wars!
Rules of Engagement
Family Guy
American Dad

Boon Dock Saints
Pulp Fiction ("MMMM! That IS a tasty burger!!")
Reservoir Dogs ("I don't tip because society dictates that I should tip!")
Remember the Titans
American History X (user name: Bratbutts_cuck)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My dog
A sense of humor
Quiet time to decompress from a stressful day at work.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Self-improvement: the enemy of "good" is "better." This is good, but it can better...let's figure out how.

I also spend a lot of time thinking of ways to enjoy my time each day, looking for something fun to do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm relaxing at home with my gf, unwinding from the week's adventures. Could be a simple date on the town, or sitting at home relaxing to a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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The most private thing I'm willing to admit here in an open forum like this? Hmmmm....
with the right chemistry, I enjoy the kinky play time and (possibly) doing whatever I'm told to do for the right woman who enjoys being playfully bossy :-)
You should message me if
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You're looking for someone to play with and you enjoy knowing that I'm already attached and not looking to replace her...merely looking to augment what we already have. Bring your kink!