Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a fun, quick witted, attached guy who's looking for some extra
spice in my life. No I'm not cheating; my lovely girlfriend is here
and we're totally open and honest about our adventures. I'm
basically looking to meet a fun, funny, interesting woman to hang
out with and have some fun times with but nothing serious. That's
not to say I'm looking for one-nighters, either; my ideal situation
would be something steady with a woman I enjoy spending time with
each week, someone I can share conversations with, in addition to
having fun. If you are a single woman looking to get attached, I'm
definitely not your guy. I'm really just looking for new friends
with fun benefits. The emotional thing is covered (so I won't be
relying on you to fill that need in my life), but the thrill of new
physical intimacy is an ever-present necessity in my life. If you
are open minded and don't mind that I'll never ask to stay
overnight, then I just might be the right guy to have hang around
once in awhile. I'm particularly interested in other poly/open
folks with a kinky side.
I like to laugh....A LOT!! If it's one thing I'm known for, it's
making the people in my life laugh OFTEN!
Moved here for in November 2010 from the tri-state area of New
York/PA, NJ. Met my beautiful girlfriend on here a year later. Now
we're in an open relationship where we both play with others; I'm
back looking for a play partner who's looking for some fun and
likes the idea that I'm attached.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
October 2013: I have an interesting job that can be, at times, very
demanding of my time. However, I do NOT live to work -- I work to
live. I have many interests outside of work. I believe in working
hard so I can play even harder.
Also looking at going back to school to finish my undergrad, then
grad school, for physical therapy.
Been working in aviation for the past 15yrs and have loved it! I
started my aviation career with the Marine Corps as a helicopter
mechanic & crew chief. That was an amazing time, full of many
many wonderful memories! When I left the Corps, I found a job that
focused on scheduling pilots & flight attendants. I took a
short 2yr hiatus from scheduling in order to take a job with Boeing
as a Technical Writer. It was a lot of fun to work in such a
technical job that allowed you to use colored pencils, lol. Working
only as a contractor, though, I was one of many to be let go when
there were budget issues. I eventually found my way back to the
airlines working with scheduling pilots & flight attendants
However, its time for a career change, which is why I'll soon be
going back to school for a job that a) piques my interest, b) suits
my skill sets, c) offers better stability than the airline
industry, and d) offers a gentler quality of life than airlines do,
lol. Looking at different schools for physical therapy, as that
seems to fit my skill sets best.
Working hard, playing harder, and keeping busy with learning new
things along the way.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not too sure what to put here...sounds too much like bragging about
Love to laugh, love to find the humor in nearly any situation; I
use a lot of humor to diffuse difficult/stressful situations. Seem
to be able to find the silver lining in nearly any situation. Been
through too much to not have learned how to appreciate things in
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My style of humor. I've been told I have the mix of styles from
Christopher Walken & Dennis Leary.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
HIMYM and the obligatory Star Wars!
Rules of Engagement
Boon Dock Saints
Pulp Fiction ("MMMM! That IS a tasty burger!!")
Reservoir Dogs ("I don't tip because society dictates that I should
Remember the Titans
American History X
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The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A sense of humor
Quiet time to decompress from a stressful day at work.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Self-improvement: the enemy of "good" is "better." This is good,
but it can better...let's figure out how.
I also spend a lot of time thinking of ways to enjoy my time each
day, looking for something fun to do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm relaxing at home with my gf, unwinding from the week's
adventures. Could be a simple date on the town, or sitting at home
relaxing to a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The most private thing I'm willing to admit here in an open forum
like this? Hmmmm....
with the right chemistry, I enjoy the kinky play time and
(possibly) doing whatever I'm told to do for the right woman who
enjoys being playfully bossy :-)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're looking for someone to play with and you enjoy knowing that
I'm already attached and not looking to replace her...merely
looking to augment what we already have. Bring your kink!
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