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51 Fairfax, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 43–59
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 3
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Graduated from masters program
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes cats
English, Italian (Okay)
My self-summary
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Welcome. Spring is in the air and I feel ready to meet someone wonderful! I’ve been sitting with what it is that I really want in a partner and what it is I bring to the table. What is partnership? It’s being together regardless of what shows up. Meeting it together. Having fun! Sharing it all and giving one another space. I really just want a great guy to hang out with and be with. What I realize is that I want someone with whom I can be my best self (and my not so best self). Someone who brings out the good in me and asks me to rise up rather than crash down into my habitual behaviors. I am from NY originally so an east coaster is a plus…Italian or Jewish a bonus as well as I hail from Jewish origins though am not religious in this way. It’s a “cultcha” if you know what I mean. I’m type A and really need a strong man to meet me.

I am healthy in body and mind. Don’t have any addictions (save chocolate and that is a food as far as I’m concerned) and I’d like a partner who is equally healthy. I want to enjoy the simple pleasures of life together. Life goes fast. This is becoming more and more clear over time. I figure I still have a good chunk of time left and I want to learn and grow with a partner. Is that you? Are you evolving and growing and love to learn and discover? I take pleasure in the morning sunshine, in reading a story on the couch with my little girl (age 8 1/2), in a good cup of strong tea, in a movie that pulls at my heartstrings, in cracking up at the most ridiculous of things, in walking in nature, in meditating, writing, goofing around and dancing. What do you love? Would you like to share it? I’ve always learned tons in relationship and I’m ready for my next level of learning. If this touches you I’d love to hear from you.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am at a place in my life where I am successful in both my work and as a mother. I feel like I am really living "on purpose". What am I doing? I work as a Psycho-Spiritual counselor who helps people align with themselves, be fully in their bodies and learn how to relate in a way that is authentic. My offering is through the's a combination of mindfulness and embodiment. I journey around in people's hearts and souls with them. I feel so thankful to be able to do what I do.
I’m really good at
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enjoying life
The first things people usually notice about me
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my presence
my big brown eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love to read and truth be told I have not read many novels since my daughter was born. I read a lot of kids' books and love The Sun Magazine. Books by my bedside include the poetry of Hafiz, Rumi, John O'Donohue and others...I love a rich, juicy novel...

Music: Michael Franti, Amos Lee, gotta have Stevie, Jai Uttal, Keith Jarrett, lots of jammin' Gospel, Billy Holiday, Louis Armstrong and others...I love music I can move to as well as music with lyrics that touch my heart. Basically I like music with soul.

Food: Organic everything. I mostly eat a lot of salads, steamed veggies, love Indian, good Italian (I lived in Italy), Japanese, Thai...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my daughter
deep breaths...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my visions
what I am doing here and if I am making the most of this flash in the pan life...
awesome ways to enjoy...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It depends. I have my daughter every other weekend so on the weekends I have her we are most likely home. Otherwise...I could be relaxing myself, with friends or doing a myriad of things...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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happy to share with you when we meet.
You should message me if
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You are healthy in body, mind and spirit. You know yourself. You like yourself. You like to laugh and play. You feel at ease as you move through the world (at least most of the time), you are a good communicator and you are available to meet a great woman who will rock your world :)