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35 Oakland, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28-45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:17am
Middle Eastern, White
5' 0" (1.52m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and it’s important
Working on Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I am what I do.
What I’m doing with my life
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Choreographer, theater director, voice actor, teacher. (Sometimes I get called on to do a little singing, but only by those in on the secret.)

I should probably say that while I'm a pretty playful person, I'm also quite serious about what I do. I'm happiest when I am busy. That said, I'm even happier when I have someone to fuss over and someone to return the favor.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at connecting with people, fixing stuff, cooking, stories, learning languages, forgetting languages.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am a cartoon.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Art: francis bacon, egon schiele, james turrell, julie mehretu, rodin, robert siegel, kandinsky, ... etc.

Lit: bradbury, rushdie, calvino, milton, salinger, huysmans, carl sagan, john donne, david foster wallace, fritjof capra, jared diamond, sci-fi (and sci-fact) in all its forms. You get the idea...

Music: alice contrane, iggy pop, phillip glass, mingus, david bowie, jaco pastorius, pharaoh sanders, miles davis, piazzolla, new music, contemporary composition, jazz.

Film: jim jarmusch, wes anderson, miranda july, guillermo del toro, jodorovsky, foreign movies, blockbuster movies, indy movies, whatever. I just like movies.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My unconditionally loving family, friends who make weird noises, good walking/hiking shoes, working, lively conversation.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm often with friends at a performance of some kind. Or just with friends. Or sometimes not with friends. I like to maintain a healthy fun time to quiet time ratio.
You should message me if
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... you enjoy physical activity.
... you totally dig learning new stuff.
... you value compassion.
... you are OK that I make no room for religion and spirituality in my life. Mediation and awareness? Yes. Pseudoscience...nope.
~OR~ have a dog and will let me hang out with it.