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35 Oakland, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 2:56pm
Middle Eastern, White
5' 0" (1.52m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and it’s important
Dropped out of Post grad
Wants kids
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I am what I do.
What I’m doing with my life
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Choreographer, theater director, voice actor, teacher. (Sometimes I get called on to do a little singing, but only by those in on the secret.)

I should probably say that while I'm a pretty playful person, I'm also quite serious about what I do. I'm happiest when I am busy. That said, I'm even happier when I have someone to fuss over and someone to return the favor.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at connecting with people, fixing stuff, cooking, stories, learning languages, forgetting languages.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am a cartoon.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Art: francis bacon, egon schiele, james turrell, julie mehretu, rodin, robert siegel, kandinsky, ... etc.

Lit: bradbury, rushdie, calvino, milton, salinger, huysmans, carl sagan, john donne, david foster wallace, fritjof capra, jared diamond, sci-fi (and sci-fact) in all its forms. You get the idea...

Music: alice contrane, iggy pop, phillip glass, mingus, david bowie, jaco pastorius, pharaoh sanders, miles davis, piazzolla, new music, contemporary composition, jazz.

Film: jim jarmusch, wes anderson, miranda july, guillermo del toro, jodorovsky, foreign movies, blockbuster movies, indy movies, whatever. I just like movies.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My unconditionally loving family, friends who make weird noises, good walking/hiking shoes, working, lively conversation.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm often with friends at a performance of some kind. Or just with friends. Or sometimes not with friends. I like to maintain a healthy fun time to quiet time ratio.
You should message me if
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... you enjoy physical activity.
... you totally dig learning new stuff.
... you value compassion.
... you are OK that I make no room for religion and spirituality in my life. Mediation and awareness? Yes. Pseudoscience...nope.
~OR~ have a dog and will let me hang out with it.