If you are straight or monogamous don't even bother unless you are only looking for friends. Notably I have straight folks blocked atm so who knows when that part will be relevant to anyone looking here.
I want to have casual sex. Mostly anal. Mostly with my partner just cause like New People and I'm into D/s and that is super intimate and it's easier to explore it in the context of people I already fuck which basically at this point is my partner. 3 some? Only if you don't suck :/
**seemingly necessary edit**
JUST BECAUSE I SAY THAT I WANT TO HAVE SEX DOES NOT MEAN THAT I WANT TO DO IT WITH YOU OR GET MESSAGES SAYING "lets fuck"
THE ANSWER IS NO.
"Only if you dont suck" means that you are messaging with more content than "lets fuck" even if the general spirit of the message is "lets fuck" I mean, be forward if you want but also be graceful and at least pretend that you care about my personality.
Anarchist. Hard femme. Queer
I always dress in drag.
Kink. Versatile fluid-switch. Pansexual, feminist, DIY body-positive, sex-positive (for myself, I get that sex is not a posi thing for everyone) Interested in anti-oppression though not perfect at it.
I like power. And pain in the context of consensual power dynamics.
Exploring weird hormones, piercing, body mod. Into aggressively and intentionally living in this body.
Into barrier methods. Or at the very least people who ask my barrier methods before trying to fuck me. Open to this as a form of foreplay.
I am interested in (maaaaybe) talking about the following: pacifism (just re-read a bunch of anti-prison materials and pro-pas stuff, respectively, that I think is interesting. I am notably not a pacifist though) Atheism and "progress" and white supremacy, colonialization. Gender, hormones, body mod. Makeup. Conflict resolution as a general subject (not even pro-resolution conversation necessarily). Identities and bodies as they are impacted by technology. Whatever you're into.
In friends (and also including this in date spectrum folks as well, but def in friends) am looking for rad left folks AND OR femmes and queers. Lets hang out. Or chat on the internet which is my current version of "hang out"
I'm like busy and stuff and it takes me a bit to make room in physical space as well as digital space. Meat-space space comes easy enough though when I am motivated in certain ways to hang out with folks. Also I'm focusing on my mental health right now and sometimes even if I am interested I am not in the space to move into the irl zone. It's not you, it's me. Unless it's you....
I guess it's notable to say that I don't care about "bad" grammar, "bad" spelling, or academic qualifications. I mean, do what you do and if its empowering that is sincerely really great, but I have a hard time believing that those kinds of things make one better or more exciting than other folks. It bugs me if you think other people are stupid.
I appreciate a complex analysis of oppression - not just class struggle and war on the state. I fully support both of these things but desire a dedicated interest in intersections of oppression and struggle. Kyriarchy.
I'm kinky and or interested in hanging with more asexual folks. Yeah sexuality is complicated. I dont care if mine makes sense to you or not.
I like pretty things like velvet and lace and fermentations and making stuff like special presies for friends. I have a strong personality. I'm also really nice. Or at least I try to be and hear that I am. Rather than "nice" exactly I think that I am posi, validating, and usually care about making others feel comfortable.
I actively try to make my strong personality palatable for others without compromising myself. I feel like I'm not competitive and dislike assumed hierarchies. I prefer to work out relationships on a lateral plane while still recognizing different experiences and privilege/oppression.
On the flip side I don't like a lot of people. I work in customer service in one of the most taxing (customer wise) positions I (personally) have worked in. These fucking people. Usually burnt out on having to deal with people I don't like on a really basic level and don't give a lot to folks in my personal life who I am not connected to. Bitch face.
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