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5' 4" (1.63m)
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Post grad
English, French (Somewhat), Farsi (Somewhat), Chinese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Okay. So, I really can't live without laughter. I truly believe the apex of every austere gravity to be humor in its infancy. And as the lady kindly reminds me, "Time will tell". Though, at the end of the day, ideas drive me. If it be a song I'm working on, a painting series, design project, or just hanging out, bouncing thoughts off friends over drinks. Some people are preoccupied being something, others are busy doing something. I have a brush. I love clearing my head with headphones, bike, and road. Finding something new, randomly taking that left and seeing where it leads you. Ever since I was a child, I've been fascinated by the senses and their impact on perception. These qualities are near and dear to my heart. This has lead me to pursue the life of a visual artist, which I feel attempts to imbibe stimuli infinitum.
What I’m doing with my life
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Nihao all!
I just returned from a four month journey! Three months of which were at an artist residency in Beijing. I can't believe it's over! What a journey! Where to start? In a strange way, I can describe my time in Beijing as a kind of born again experience, and quite literally just that. Everything I experienced was new. I had to relearn as if a child. From simple communication to everyday tasks like buying groceries my world digressed into a sort of adolescence providing an interesting perspective to reflect upon my life and work.
Above all, the connections I made with the people and city were life changing. I feel as if my community of similar minded artists has expanded exponentially. The residency program sponsored 18 artists from all over China, and 12 international artists. We shared everything. As a group we worked, cooked, laughed, cried, learned, and travelled together—you name it. Upon arrival at the museum there was a “shao kao” or traditional Chinese barbeque. From the outset the community was engaged and very welcoming. Of course communication was difficult at times, but everyone was eager to share ideas. Dundun, now a dear friend, was one of the Chinese artists that helped translate. However, when he wasn’t around both the foreign and Chinese artists took turns talking and teaching each other their respective languages and cultures. At one point, multiple artists were correcting my Chinese, each one stressing a different pronunciation. Turns out, almost every artist was from distant regions within China where the dialect is slightly, or at times very different! Hence, my learning grew upon a wide range ideas and opinions from artists all over the country. In my heart I know the relationships built and nurtured at the residency will be life long. From museums to small city alleyways, from the homes of local artists to remote country roads I witnessed the diverse tapestry of Beijing culture. A appreciate the intimacy of knowing a place by walking it. Here, the feeling of time and timelessness were suspended together throughout the city. On the other hand to unite this idea with my persistent self-inquiry, the bulk of my trip remained in painting, drawing, photography, visual research and at times more experimental media.
In all honesty my recent trek through Beijing was one of the most difficult and rewarding endeavors I have ever embarked on. It has truly expanded my consciousness in ways I could never have predicted and now my life, my mind, and my art are better for it. As I settle back into the States, I'll update these words to reflect my continuing life here.
I’m really good at
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being good. Honestly. Whatever the situation.
The first things people usually notice about me
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is my voice for sure. People tell me it's distinct. Second, would be my smile. Cause I'm always smiling, and also because people are probably looking to locate whats making all that noise. Third, my eyes. Because I don't want you looking at my chest. Up here. There you go. Thank you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Classical Literature (Epic of Gilgamesh, Iliad, the Aeneid)
Poetry (Rumi, Cummings, Saul Williams)
French Lit (Proust, L'étranger, Les Misérable, Le Petit Prince)
Philosophy (where to start, I'm into Richard Rorty at the moment)
Seriously, anything about art

Goonies, The Immaculate Conception of Little Dizzle, Irreversible, Eraserhead, Rubber, Scott Pilgrim vs. the World, Le Fabuleux Destin d'Amélie Poulain, Babies, Watership Down, High Fidelity, Eternal Sunshine of a Spotless Mind, Ten. This list is a very wide spread =). I would love to watch Women Without Men by Shirin Neshat, but I haven't had the time to track it down. And the list goes on...

Sadly, I haven't had a tv in 12 years, so my knowledge of sitcoms and pop culture are nil in comparison to any teenage girl.

Music: this hurts there's just too much
The XX, Iron and Wine, Starfucker, Clap Your Hands Say Yeah, LCD Sound System, Andrew Bird, Horse Feathers, Beck, Miss Li, Soko, Sufjan Stevens, Little Pictures, Gorrillaz, Fleet Foxes, Lykke Li, Nick Drake, Neutral Milk Hotel, The Dø, I'm from Barcelona, The Black Keys.
Please check out Its amazing. is the Sacramento version. Pregnant does their video at my house!

My head hurts...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
friends, family, coffee, my guitar, serendipitous moments, and art
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'm often recollecting the previous night's shenanigans. Playing back clips of beautiful moments, while giggling quietly to myself.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going for a bike ride around Sacramento or skipping all that for some time in the woods.
You should message me if
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If you want to go on a bike ride or get lost in the woods. I'm also into coffee and beer. Also, adventuring and perhaps discovering something new is always a plus.