...you're not a horrible, humorless, ball of hate. You don't have
to be the nicest person around, just try not to be a reactionary
^I've gotten some criticism over the above statement. Let me
clarify. I totally support someone's right to name hurtful or
oppressive shit around them. I DON'T support someone's right to
yell at or belittle people who they think are inferior to them in
some way. I'm not telling people to be silent. I just don't want to
hang out with you if a core part of your identity is "angry"
instead of "critical."
If you're a radical queer who wants to talk about D&D!
If you like gaming, going out for a drink/bite and a movie or maybe
If you understand why a GED is more impressive to me than a high
If you can paint epic murals and/or want to show me how.
If you want to meet the other people in my life. I want to meet the
people in yours.
If you want to hang out with a mellow, decent human being who's
maybe just a little bit predictable - but in a totally dependable,
Also, if you're attracted to me, you are going to have to be really
explicit about that at some point. I'm not usually comfortable
trying to figure out if someone is flirting with me. There are so
many power dynamics at play, and I have a pretty big fear of
misreading people's intent.