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28 M Portland, OR

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:53am
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of university
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Huge nerd with a great sense of humor.

Just coming out of biggish life stuff so I'm reevaluating how I want to spend my time.

Looking for friends and dating but not looking for anymore serious relationships for a while.

I try to be sincere and honest all the time. I don't really have room in my life for folks if I can't lay it all on the table with them.

I'm in two long-term committed relationships right now. I'm not looking to be friends or anything else with folks that aren't cool with that. My partners are important to me and if I can't talk to you about my life, or you'd rather pretend that aspects of it didn't exist, you should move along.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
"Professionally," I run a wood shop, which I have become allergic to.

I'm trying to write again. I used to be good at it.

Oh, and I'm a street medic. So that's a thing I do which makes me busy sometimes.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Working with my hands. When I was a child, I wanted to be some sort of "great thinker." Then I figured out that Ayn Rand was full of shit. These days, I just want to build things. Communities, furniture, things.

I can make hella good pickles and halfway decent beer.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm tall and skinny.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Basic tool set/really good multi-tool
2. Set of dice
3. Tempeh
4. Root Beer
5. Corrective lenses
6. A writing instrument
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home with a friend/partner or out for drinks.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out! that I barely graduated high school. I don't really mesh well with institutional education, which explains why I "worked" on an undergraduate degree for 9 years.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 21–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.'re not a horrible, humorless, ball of hate. You don't have to be the nicest person around, just try not to be a reactionary self-important ass.

If you like gaming, going out for a drink/bite and a movie or maybe a show.

If you want to hang out with a mellow, decent human being who's maybe just a little bit predictable - but in a totally dependable, reassuring way.

I'm also on here looking for folks to play D&D with.

You should message me if that sounds fun because I'm not about to send out a ton of messages to random people being like "Hey, there. Wanna go on adventures with my friends and me looting dungeons and slaying monsters? IN OUR MINDS?!"

Actually, wait. That might totally work. That sounds awesome.

I blog about D&D at