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34 Ottawa, Ontario, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 29–44
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Jun 24, 2012
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Full figured
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Seeing Someone
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Independent, open-minded, polyamorous, pansexual, respectful, affectionate, warm, confident, and spoiled!

I enjoy cultural activities like theatre and photography, but I'll lose my voice shouting at a hockey game. I love to be openly affectionate, but I need my space. I know what I want, but I'm open to new ideas. I'm a new-age woman, but I'm an ol'romantic at heart. I may not be loaded, but I enjoy appreciating the finer things in life. And I like to have my cake and eat it, too :D

That's a lot to deal with; consider yourself forewarned.

A few tips for messaging:
- I'm not looking for casual sex, to be a third in your sexcapades, or a long-distance relationship.
- if I write to you, please be so kind as to write back, even if it's to say you're not interested.
- I login when I have a reason to or I am really procrastinating, otherwise my time here has become pretty limited.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I keep *very* busy with my work and social life - downtime is minimal, but I like to think I juggle it well. I'm one of the fortunate people that loves their job, so it all works out in the end.

I shift between two households with my partners xendisottawa and lefty89, and that is first priority in my life's schedule. I moderate the BiTown Ottawa YahooGroup, enjoy gaming with my 'poly families', and generally try to make sure that I have a healthy counter-balance to what seems like endless work hours!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
almost anything I put my mind to and enjoy. Right now, that would include listening, coordinating people/events, cooking, playing strategy board games (though not necessarily winning!), multitasking, and (geek moment) coordinating schedules!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
WIDE variety on all accounts...

Most of what I get to reading is course-related material, which can be interesting, but not escapist. Admittedly, I don't read as much as I'd like, nor as much as I should, nor as much as the avid readers on this site!

I watch movies exclusively (I don't have TV). I can watch a good film repeatedly, and will often have one playing in the background while doing whatever else. "Good" movies include Amelie, Boogie Nights, Dogma, Hook, Little Miss Sunshine, Matrix, People vs. Larry Flynt, Snatch, Wonder Boys, etc.

A familiar tune can totally change my mood, for better or for worse! My playlists include chick music (folky stuff), rock & punk, classic rock, retro 80s & 90s, instrumental, oldies, and chillin' tunes.

Good food is what life's all about! I enjoy trying new foods or sharing an old favourite with good company. I'm getting better at cooking, but using my coupon book to explore new places is fun, too. Thai, Italian, Japanese, Chinese, Greek, Ethiopian, Indian, Korean, French, pub fare, Tex Mex, desserts... bring it on!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Maslow's basics aside, and in no particular order...

1. friends/family 2. sexuality 3. the internet 4. movies 5. sleep 6. passion (not just sexual)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my 'six things' list, work, human relationships, what's to come...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
crashing - it's been a long week! But there is no 'typical' - could be working, could be home watching movies, could be on a date, could be on a roadtrip...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
that I'm bisexual, polyamorous (aka - non-monogamous), and highly independent... and that is NOT easy to deal with, personally or for others.

I also have an inexplicable aversion to the phone. I only have a cell for this reason, and use it quite infrequently. If I don't want to 'chat' on the phone with you, it's nothing personal.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- you live locally

- you're intrigued by one or more points in my profile

- you have a personality to share

- you're not just looking for sex

- you noticed that my favourite movies list was alphabetical

- you recognize people in my friends network (*ahem* since this feature has since been removed from the site, I shall name-drop: xendisottawa, lefty89, philoscope, pezchica, etc.)

- you know someone who would be a good match for my mum, mummydee55, whom I just signed up here

- you know what it means to be an "esFJ"

- you have something interesting to say!