i don't fit in this box, but ok.
friendly affectionate hedonist foodie who you can rely on with live-and-let-live attitude (although sometimes wishes to vomit at some people's deranged value systems). strong believer in personal freedom, but also a big advocate of responsibility. likes music, books, travelling, (late night) conversation, laughter, being a child, tenderness, honesty. dislikes fear and considers it the root of all evil. willing to risk emotionally and is stable enough to survive it :P
this is crap, this isn't even close to all what i am :P
What I’m doing with my life
whatever i want. whatever excites me at any given moment. the idea is to get as much enjoyment without hurting anyone or neglecting those who are important to me. what i like most is connecting with other people. and i mean really connecting. superficial small talk tires me. it's a waste of time, too.
i love someone, but he lives abroad and we are free to see other people and develop other relationships, so i am technically single. hope that makes sense.
I’m really good at
cooking. listening. helping. kissing :P
The first things people usually notice about me
go and see for yourself! i'm not the same with everyone. different
prompts produce different reactions :D
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
books: Possession, by AS Byatt; Cement Garden by I McEwan; The Lemon Table by Julian Barnes and sooo many more!
movies: Baby of Macon, Clerks, Reservoir Dogs, Heavenly Creatures, Down by Law, Fargo, Gran Torino, In the Mood for Love, A Single Man, Dogville, Frances Ha, Grand Budapest Hotel...
music: Nick Cave, Pavement, Pixies, RATM, The Xx, Lack of Afro, Portishead, Fleet Foxes, The Black Keys, Calexico, Alt-J, Wovenhand/16 Horsepower, Alabama Shakes, Timber Timbre, Widowspeak and loads more
shows: Seinfeld, IT Crowd, Black Books, The Mighty Boosh, Prime Suspect; The Wire, Orange is the New Black, Black Mirror, In Treatment, The Fall, Futurama
food: ALL FOOD!! except brussels sprouts :D
The six things I could never do without
love&sex, chocolate, soft bed, friendship, period pain killers, music
EDIT: chocolate is out. eggy sauces are in. and i've become addicted to pasteis de nata (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pastel_de_nata
: packs for Portugal :
I spend a lot of time thinking about
people, motivation, love, relationships, food, zits, buses, travel, my parents, freedom and its consequences, coffee, the way we live our lives, music, happiness-inducing events/things, comfy shoes...
On a typical Friday night I am
doing what i feel like on that particular day. out walking. or having a beer with friends. at home washing the dishes which have been waiting for far too long :P or travelling. in winter, though, i really like being curled up in my blanket on my couch... in summer - well, that's a different story :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
if i sense that you're an open and trustworthy person, i can talk about anything. no skeletons in my closet - or at least there weren't any the last time i checked!
You should message me if
no if. just do. there's nothing to lose and we could gain a lot! :P if you are out of my age range, message me nonetheless, the range is more or less arbitrary. even if you are just passing through zagreb - we can grab a beer and have a chat.
EDIT: right wing conservatives, nationalists & fascists need not contact me.
EDIT #2: anyone who thinks borders should be closed to syrian refugees can also fuck right off.