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32 Chicago, IL Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 29–38
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Mar 1
Pacific Islander, White
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Seeing Someone
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English, French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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i recently moved to chicago and i need to update my okcupid profile. so while i think of witty ways to re-write this thing, enjoy my old personality!
What I’m doing with my life
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i have a pretty intense job in manhattan that most days i adore. it's in finance. i never thought i'd work in finance, but there you go. other that that, i'm working on my new years resolutions: #1: investing #2: music #3: yoga #4: cooking (with "looks" being a soft number 5)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
i took this test that said my five top qualities were social intelligence, bravery, hope, judgement, and honesty (it's actually quite an awesome test-- you can take it yourself for free here if you like:

apparently i'm great at personality tests! i do tend to shine in social situations. i have a fair amount of confidence (i've earned it!) and i tend to gravitate towards the more secure
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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To be honest, I have not devoted a lot of time to literature of late, but when I used to read I liked various pop fiction, murakami, Russian authors, etc. (god that sounds so horrible-- note to self-- pick up actual book NOW!) But anyways, lately what I REALLY love to read are personal growth books on wealth and investing. Also books about psychology and relationships and nutrition. I guess that means I'm interested in emotions and the human condition.

my film knowledge is horribly remedial but i like dramas and french films and things with a plot (like all those will smith movies! like independence day and i am legend). my favorite shows are always my friends' bands, my friends' friend's band, or the open mic night at pete's candy shop. i love singing and harmonies. i love cozy spots. i love music (i gravitate towards indie, lofi, 90s post punk, and the tragically precious) some bands i like: crooked fingers, belle and sebastian, guided by voices, sebadoh, sufjan stevens, joni mitchell, the tallest man on earth, bill callahan, sun kill moon, jens lekman, superchunk. i like drag city as a record label and i still try to go to pitchfork music festival every year, if that means anything (even though i will only typically know 1/3 of the bands or less on the bill

food-- organic, fresh, healthy, decadent. i'm snobby and not snobby. i eat paleo. i try not to eat past 6pm on weekdays but i love long candlelit dinners with every single course. i didn't think i liked tacos but apparently i do. (lots of cool boys in my hood like tacos so maybe i started liking them by association now.) though i try not to eat any grains/ gluten
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
guitar, a song, a cozy place to sleep, dreams and fantasies, restaurants and bars, washington dc
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my new years resolutions. how to be better listener, friend, lover. how to improve.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
exhausted. lately i get a massage at chinese massage for men and women on the corner of metropolitan and graham, and then i take myself out for a steak. or go directly to bed. i'm much better on saturday days and nights, when i don't have the entire work week on my shoulders.
You should message me if
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you want to hang

also you should also message me if you actually took the afore mentioned personality test posted in my profile, and you want to tell me your results! i love that shit